Marriage & Relationship Coach

Take a Cheating Spouse Back: 3 Conditions

Take a cheating spouse back only after you rebuild your relationship Many people, in their desire to reconcile, will take a cheating spouse back too quickly.  The problem with this is that their spouses are still overcoming their attraction to someone else and are not fully committed to reconciling.  After returning home, they have only a half-hearted effort at...

Affairs: Getting from Confrontation to Reconnection

Even when your spouse is having an affair, love is still the answer to reconnection and to not giving in to your anger Robin had been feeling for a long time like she was unimportant to her husband.  He didn’t seem to be interested in talking with her anymore.  He would if he needed to, and he wasn’t complaining to her about anything.  He said, “thank you,” and...

Can I Get My Husband Back from the Other Woman?

Both for the man who is afraid to lose his wife and for the man who no longer cares, there are ways to restore the marriage Being replaced in your husband’s life by another woman hurts a lot.  You are likely to cycle through periods of anger and sadness and the sickening feeling of how you were betrayed.  Before you throw in the towel on your marriage,...

Affairs in Marriage: Do’s and Don’ts for Reconciling

Acting on impulse is not the best strategy when you want to reconcile. Follow non-destructive principles until you become more stable. How do you feel?  What do you want?  These are hard questions to answer when your relationship has been turned upside down by an affair. Your answers to these questions may change from day to day, and if you just follow your...

Affair by Spouse? How to Confront When You Want to Rebuild

You will have to confront your spouse with your knowledge of his or her affair if you hope to save your relationship.  But, what is the best way to do that? I recommend keeping the confrontation simple and short.  It is not a discussion, negotiation, lecture,or interview.  And, it definitely should not be an argument.  A simple and effective way to do it is in...

You Discovered a Sexual or Emotional Affair. What now?

The way you confront your spouse for a sexual or emotional affair will either help you to keep the door open or close it on your relationship Commonly, one partner discovers the other to be having an affair after collecting evidence, or after catching their partner “in the act.” The partner who discovers the affair reacts in a hostile or threatening manner and...

Sexual Affair or Emotional Affair? Questions and Answers

Do you know the difference between a sexual affair and an emotional affair?  Is one more ok than the other?  Can someone have a “mental affair,” even if he or she isn’t seeing anyone? You have this feeling in your gut that your partner is cheating on you, and you have some evidence. But, your partner may insist that he or she is not having an affair....