Marriage and Relationship Coaching for People Who Have a Rejecting or Difficult Spouse
If you have been feeling stuck or frustrated because your spouse will not work with you, you will love these packages. Each package gives you:
- One on one personal relationship coaching sessions with professionally credentialed psychologist and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito (these are not impersonal teleseminars or scripted help)
- individualized help for your situation–(not generic advice on a set of CD’s)
- skills to restore your partner’s love and build respect (you will not get advice to just be loving and patient because this doesn’t work)
- a full month of services, including coaching sessions, assessments, and daily help;
- confidentiality–no embarrassing waiting rooms;
- anywhere you are–whether you are at home or traveling. Skype or telephone–your choice;
- pro-family values: emphasizing love, respect, fairness, equality, commitment, and Christian values
ONE MONTH MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIP COACHING PACKAGES
(Live, One-on-One Coaching with Dr. Jack Ito by Phone or Skype–International Clients Welcome!)
Two types of relationship coaching packages to choose from:
- Packages for you to improve or save your relationship without your spouse’s participation.
- Packages for you and your spouse to work together (couple’s coaching)
Four Coaching packages designed for you to improve or save your relationship without your spouse’s participation:
1. Re-Connections Marriage Coaching
For men and women whose spouse is rejecting, has separated, or who wants to end the marriage
Is your husband or wife on the way out of your relationship? Stopped spending time with you? Or just doesn’t feel in love with you anymore? If so, you probably can’t stop thinking about what you should do, keep replaying what your spouse said to you, and find it hard to sleep because your thoughts just won’t shut off. This coaching package will help you to sleep again by rebuilding your spouse’s love for you. You will learn to have healthy boundaries while also communicating in a way that draws your spouse back to you. This coaching is just for you.
2. Marriage Coaching for Ending a Spouse’s Affair
For men and women whose spouse is having an affair
Is your spouse having an affair at this very moment? Is there still a chance for your marriage? How do you confront in a loving way without being weak or needy? If you are wrestling with these questions or are being “put on hold” while your spouse decides whether to continue your marriage or not (while still seeing the other man or woman), then you are a good candidate for this coaching package. Together we will help you to create the boundaries that you get you respect and leave you in control, while also leaving the door open for reconciliation and restoration. This coaching is just for you.
3. Restoring Love with Difficult Spouses
For men and women whose spouse is angry, controlling, selfish, or withdrawn
Are you yelled at, blamed for everything, or shut out while your spouse retreats to his or her cave? If you are, you are probably feeling unloved and unimportant. People in this situation feel incredibly stuck because when they try to work on problems, their spouse shuts them down. They cycle between feeling angry and feeling sad–until they start to feel nothing. This package stops this downward spiral by changing the way you interact with your spouse. You will learn how to stop being a victim of your spouse’s behavior and instead become an active change agent for your marriage. The end result will be partnership and a closeness that you both enjoy. This coaching is just for you.
4. Becoming a Secure Partner (Overcome Neediness) Relationship Coaching Package
For men and women who’s behavior drives their spouse or partner away
Is your neediness making you unhappy and making your spouse or fiance less attracted to you? Needy people experience roller coaster relationships. They get angry and controlling, then they get scared and give-in too easily. Their relationships are very unstable. They have a deep fear of rejection because of their past relationships or loss of a parent in childhood. Because needy people are vigilant for any sign of rejection, they come off as controlling and critical to their partners. If you are needy, this package will help you to break the neediness cycle. The end result will be a stable, loving relationship with your partner. This coaching is just for you.
Couple’s Coaching Package:
Fresh Start Marriage Coaching for Couples
For couples who want a skills focused alternative to marriage counseling
Couple’s counseling and couple’s coaching are two very different approaches. In couple’s coaching, you discuss issues and communicate needs. In couple’s coaching (this package), you will each be focusing on yourselves and what you can do to create the relationship you would like to have. The emphasis is on skills building for increasing connection and attraction. This coaching is for you and your spouse.
ALSO AVAILABLE: ONE WEEK MINI-PACKAGE FOR INDIVIDUALS OR COUPLES
Loving Solutions Marriage Coaching Package
For people who just need a little guidance
Unsure if your marriage or relationship can go on? Feel like taking a drastic step, but worried it may lead to breakup or divorce? Get some clarity and direction in this one time session. We will examine what is possible to achieve in your situation and look at the obstacles that you will need to deal with. We will put the steps you need to take in order so that you have a plan of action. You will be thankful for the peace of mind that you will have when you have a plan that you can follow. If you are married, you don’t need to worry that we will make a plan for divorce–this loving solutions package is for finding ways to make things better, not worse. This package is for just you or you and your partner.