Why Being Faithful in Marriage Is Important
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Why Being Faithful in Marriage Is Important

We are now living in a time when sex and emotionally intimate relationships with someone other than your spouse is being actively promoted and touted as a good thing. Nothing could be further from the truth. Almost on a daily basis, I see relationships which have been destroyed by a lack of fidelity between marriage…

Will Having Sex with Husband Make Him End Affair?
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Will Having Sex with Husband Make Him End Affair?

Many women believe that having sex with their separated husbands will keep them faithful or make them want to reconcile. Nothing could be further from the truth. Men and women are not the same. If a man is having sex with his separated wife, that is an indicator that their relationship is doing pretty well. The…

How to Confront Your Husband’s Affair and Reconcile
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How to Confront Your Husband’s Affair and Reconcile

How and when to confront your spouse’s affair is part of the solution. The other is knowing how to rebuild following the confrontation. Robin had been feeling for a long time like she was unimportant to her husband. He didn’t seem to be interested in talking with her anymore. He would if he needed to,…

Sexual Affair or Emotional Affair? Questions and Answers
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Sexual Affair or Emotional Affair? Questions and Answers

Do you know the difference between a sexual affair and an emotional affair? Is one more ok than the other? Can someone have a “mental affair,” even if he or she isn’t seeing anyone? Have you ever had a feeling your partner was cheating on you? You may have seen or heard something that made you suspect…

Is Your Neediness Driving Your Husband to an Affair?
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Is Your Neediness Driving Your Husband to an Affair?

Neediness in marriage contributes to MOST of men’s affairs. The things you are doing to help may actually be pushing him away. Neediness is damaging to relationships at all stages and is a major contributor to failed relationships, whether married or not. A little work on your part can make a BIG difference for the…

Can I Date Others if We are Separated Due to Spouse’s Affair?
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Can I Date Others if We are Separated Due to Spouse’s Affair?

Although it may seem fair to you if you date others, this behavior can only hurt your chances of permanently reconciling. Dating others while wanting your spouse to end an affair will also quickly turn you into a hypocrite. Dating others while being married is cheating. You are still married, even while separated. You have…

How You Can End Your Spouse’s Affair while Maintaining Emotional Connection
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How You Can End Your Spouse’s Affair while Maintaining Emotional Connection

Balance good boundaries and loving communication to end your spouse’s affair and be close again You can build your relationship, even while your spouse is having an affair. But, you will need to use good boundaries. Otherwise, your spouse will enjoy you and the affair partner. The more damaged your marriage has become, the more…

When to Let a Spouse who Cheated Move Back In
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When to Let a Spouse who Cheated Move Back In

If you take your cheating husband or wife back too soon, that is needy and encourages continued affairs. So, when should you take your cheating spouse back? Many people, in their desire to reconcile, will take a cheating spouse back too quickly.  The problem with this is that their spouses are still overcoming their attraction…

How to Confront a Cheating Spouse and Rebuild
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How to Confront a Cheating Spouse and Rebuild

You will have to confront your cheating spouse with your knowledge of his or her affair if you hope to save your relationship. But, what is the best way to do that? Before confronting your cheating spouse, you need to: 1) know what you want to achieve, 2) anticipate different responses you may get, and…