Updated September 1, 2026 Do you get surprised and frustrated because your attempts at logical discussion and problem solving with your spouse turn into emotional arguments and distance? This can make you give up on solving problems, but there is a way to fix problems without creating conflict.
If your husband or wife spends too much money, money fights can quickly destroy your marriage. Overspending creates resentment, stress, and fear about the future. If you’re tired of reasoning, complaining, or pleading, I’ll share with you a better approach.
Fighting about finances is mainly about the emotional issues. Let me help you today to figure out if emotional issues need to be addressed first in your marriage, or financial ones. The right steps, in the right order, will lead to marital and financial success.
By using good skills that prevent, reduce, or end conflict, you can have a more enjoyable marriage, starting today.
Fighting in marriage is an attempt to coerce or persuade a spouse to do things they don’t want to do. It always creates stress and emotional distancing, even when it works. Arguing or fighting as some people like to say is never healthy for relationships. It is normal only in the sense that it is…
Arguments always have two components–the actual practical issue, and the way people feel about the issue. A one step approach of presenting facts won’t get you to a better relationship. A two step approach will be much easier. People have different values concerning how money should be spent or saved. They also have different ideas…
