Marriage & Relationship Coach

Can I Trust Him? Should I? How Can I Know?

He tells me I should trust him.  I want to, but I can’t. The purpose of trust is to build relationships by taking progressively bigger risks as trustworthiness is earned.  If we want to trust God, we need to take some small risks and see if He lives up to His promises.  The same is also true for learning to trust people.  And, although it might be safer...

Are You Dating a Frog? Married to a Frog?

What do “being patient,” and “kissing frogs,” have in common?  They are both common ways that people use to try to make their life and relationships better.  And they are both ways that don’t work.  At all.  Dreamland. Are you thinking that people don’t really kiss frogs?  I have worked with a lot of men and women (mostly...

How Do I Get My Husband to Love Me?

Some women find that their husbands have lost interest in them.  Instead of love, they see a tired or impatient look in their husband’s eyes.  And, these women feel less important than the TV, or computer, or even their husband’s friends. We need to take a moment to think about why husbands love their wives in the first place.  Although many women...

How Can I Get Him to Commit?

When you understand the two reasons why men commit to relationships, you will be able to get to commitment easily…if you are the right woman for him. You have been in a relationship with a man for a long time.  Perhaps even years.  He says that he loves you, you talk about the future together, you drop little hints and “accidentally” find...