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Although most spouses say they want a divorce because of problems in the marriage, rarely is that the actual reason. Understanding the real reason your spouse wants a divorce will help you know how to work on reconciling. People are often shocked when their spouse wants a divorce. Yet, when I ask them how their relationship…
Sometimes arguing is an attempt to address a legitimate issue, sometimes it signals a desire for more closeness, and sometimes it is a signal of an impending affair or divorce. If your spouse is picking arguments, you will need to be able to discern and respond correctly. At the beginning of marriage, arguments are common….
Do you feel like giving up on your marriage? Before you do that, make sure you have done all you can to make it better for you and your spouse. As a relationship coach I help people to turn around even very bad marriages. They hire me after they have tried on their own to…
Knowing the answers to a few simple questions can make the difference between reconciling or not, following a marital separation Are you wondering if you will be able to reconcile? Are you unsure about how to do that? What if there has been an affair? What if you’ve already tried to reconcile and it went…
You absolutely can reconcile even if you have been separated a long time. You will have to take the right steps to prevent in indefinite friendship-only relationship. I often receive email from people who have been separated for anywhere from six months to 5 years. Typically they ask me what the chances are for reconciling…
A common question I hear from clients in the process of reconciling is “should I keep wearing my ring, even though my husband/wife took off his/hers?” Considerations for reconciling When trying to reconcile, should we take off our wedding ring to match our spouse? Or should we leave it on to show our continued commitment?…
If your wife wants to divorce and be friends, it is because she believes she can have the best of both worlds (being single and married). You will need to follow the correct path to end your wife’s destructive fantasy and stay married. Women are being sold a lie. It’s part of the anti-family, modern…
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There is reason to hope even if you are separated or feeling stuck. For every problem, there is a solution. Learn what that is and get to work on it. There are two kinds of people who don’t have success. Those who give up hope too soon, and those who keep trying when then need…
Winning your wife back after separation requires a step by step approach. The right moves to make. How long it takes to reconcile. If I asked your wife if she loved you, she would probably tell me that she loves you, but that she is not in-love with you. Regardless of what has gone on…