How Neediness Can Push a Spouse Toward an Affair
Neediness in marriage contributes to many affairs. The things you are doing in your effort to improve your marriage may actually be pushing your spouse away. Updated October 13, 2026
Neediness in marriage contributes to many affairs. The things you are doing in your effort to improve your marriage may actually be pushing your spouse away. Updated October 13, 2026
Knowing the answers to a few simple questions can make the difference between reconciling and not reconciling after a marital separation. Updated September 29, 2026
Updated September 15, 2026 Marriage counseling is NOT a good way to get your spouse to give up an affair. Only coaching and marriage retreats provide the skills for rebuilding marriages. Which you should choose depends on your situation.
Updated September 1, 2026 Do you get surprised and frustrated because your attempts at logical discussion and problem solving with your spouse turn into emotional arguments and distance? This can make you give up on solving problems, but there is a way to fix problems without creating conflict.
Updated August 18, 2026 If your spouse has psychological problems, you have to have a balance between taking care of your spouse and taking care of yourself.
Updated August 4, 2026 Are you frustrated that trying to solve a problem with your spouse either leads to avoidance or conflict? The method you use will determine the results you get. Let me help you with some conflict-free ways of solving marriage problems.
Relationship building requires some skills, but should not feel unenjoyable. Here are five steps that will help you and your spouse enjoy the marriage-building process.
Is the way you are trying to improve your marriage really helping? Many people fail not for lack of trying, but by trying too hard with methods that don’t work. If you are willing to stop doing what feels natural and start doing what works, you can begin rebuilding connection while making the process enjoyable…
Revised June 22, 2026 How much your wife loves you mainly has to do with what you do, rather than what you convince her to feel. By making a few changes in what you do, your wife will have more loving feelings for you.
Updated June 9, 2026 You absolutely can reconcile with your spouse even if you have been separated a long time. To do that, you will have to take steps to prevent an indefinite marriage separation.