How to Liven Up a Boring, Disconnected Marriage
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How to Liven Up a Boring, Disconnected Marriage

A relationship which is not enjoyable will eventually end, even if there are no other problems. If you or your spouse are not enjoying your relationship, you must take action now. Later may be too late. Marriages, just like single relationships, need to be fun. For sure there are a lot of responsibilities and things…

Trial Separation vs. Unstructured Separation: Which is Better for Reconciling?
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Trial Separation vs. Unstructured Separation: Which is Better for Reconciling?

A trial separation is best used when both spouses want to build their relationship. Unstructured separations are much more helpful when only one spouse wants to reconcile. Let’s talk about why. Trial separation is a method commonly used by marriage counselors when husband and wife both want to reconcile, need to de-stress, and limit ongoing damage….

5 Reasons Why Your Husband Doesn’t Respect Your Boundaries and How to Get Him to
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5 Reasons Why Your Husband Doesn’t Respect Your Boundaries and How to Get Him to

If your husband doesn’t respect your boundaries, don’t give up. Boundaries are the key to stopping many damaging things that your husband may be doing. These 5 boundary tips will make your boundaries effective. Boundaries build respect and stop damaging behavior. They are so effective, the psychological community doesn’t want to teach you about them….

How to Have More Emotional Intimacy with a Difficult Spouse
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How to Have More Emotional Intimacy with a Difficult Spouse

Some spouses are reluctant to be more emotionally intimate and seem to be bothered when you try. Don’t despair! There are some helpful things you can do to restore emotional intimacy–even with a difficult spouse. Before getting married, most couples enjoy spending a lot of time together doing things just because they like to be…

The Real Reasons Behind Your Husband’s Cheating
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The Real Reasons Behind Your Husband’s Cheating

The reasons why men cheat and have affairs are not complex. Understanding them is key to preventing and ending cheating. When it comes to why men cheat and have affairs, women tend to have two problems. First, they tend to overthink the situation and come up with overly complicated answers. Secondly, they tend to believe…

Resent Your Spouse? How to End Resentment and Improve Your Marriage
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Resent Your Spouse? How to End Resentment and Improve Your Marriage

Feeling used or taken advantage of can seriously erode your love for your spouse and lead to a worse marriage. I want to give you three steps to fix this and improve your marriage. Resentment is a feeling we have when we do things for someone, expecting something in return that we don’t get. Or…

How To Rebuild Your Marriage While You Are Separated
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How To Rebuild Your Marriage While You Are Separated

Marital separation (living in different homes), can be a good opportunity for rebuilding your relationship. It can also result in ending your relationship if not done in a good way. When you are separated, it’s easy to be overly focused on ending the separation. This is natural because you miss your spouse and just want…

How to Reconcile if Your Husband Doesn’t Like You
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How to Reconcile if Your Husband Doesn’t Like You

Even if your husband doesn’t like you, you can still reconcile. You do that with several specific steps you take in the right order. Many relationships can be reconciled regardless of the amount of emotional distance. It does not require you to be submissive. Mutual submission is great, one-way submission not so much as it…

Do You Know the Signs that Your Marriage Is Over?
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Do You Know the Signs that Your Marriage Is Over?

Many people consider their marriage to be over and give up on it even though it can still be saved. For every person who saves their marriage working with me, there are many others who gave up on their marriage in the very same situation. Sometimes it is because they want to, but sometimes it…

Physical Separation vs In Home Separation: Which is Better for Reconciling?
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Physical Separation vs In Home Separation: Which is Better for Reconciling?

While many people fear living apart will end their marriage, physical separation has benefits for reconciling that living together as-if separated doesn’t. When people behave as if they are separated while living together, they are actually still sharing the same space. The separation is actually an emotional separation. This is accomplished by avoidance and intentional…