Go from Needy to Secure to Save Your Relationship
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Go from Needy to Secure to Save Your Relationship

Are you feeling frustrated and angry in your relationship because your partner is not making the changes you need to feel loved?  Replace needy ineffective behaviors with secure behaviors to get him or her to make the changes you want. A needy person is not what you think. Needy does not refer to dependent.  A…

When to Hire a Coach vs. a Counselor for Help with Relationship Problems
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When to Hire a Coach vs. a Counselor for Help with Relationship Problems

Do you know when to hire a coach and when to hire a counselor? Do you know what the differences are between the two? Making the right choice can make the difference between reconciling and divorcing and being friends. There are so many coaches and counselors providing services both online and off, it can be…

How to Reconcile with a Wife Who is Always Angry or Can’t Trust You
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How to Reconcile with a Wife Who is Always Angry or Can’t Trust You

People can get stuck in their feelings and have a hard time getting over them. You can help your wife to get over hers, and work toward reconciling. When your wife says she hates you, can’t trust you, or is behaving that way, it is an honest reflection of her feelings.You need to take her…

Q & A About How to Reconcile After a Marital Separation
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Q & A About How to Reconcile After a Marital Separation

Knowing the answers to a few simple questions can make the difference between reconciling or not, following a marital separation Are you wondering if you will be able to reconcile? Are you unsure about how to do that? What if there has been an affair? What if you’ve already tried to reconcile and it went…

4 Steps for Making Up After an Argument or Fight with Your Spouse
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4 Steps for Making Up After an Argument or Fight with Your Spouse

You are ready to make up after your fight or argument but your spouse isn’t. Here are four steps you can take to get your relationship back on track fast. Whether it was your fault or not, and no matter the reason for the fight, you need to get your marriage back on track. After…

How to Reconcile after a Long Separation and Get Re-Commitment
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How to Reconcile after a Long Separation and Get Re-Commitment

You absolutely can reconcile even if you have been separated a long time. You will have to take the right steps to prevent in indefinite friendship-only relationship. I often receive email from people who have been separated for anywhere from six months to 5 years.  Typically they ask me what the chances are for reconciling…

How to Talk About Relationship Problems in a Way that Your Spouse will Like
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How to Talk About Relationship Problems in a Way that Your Spouse will Like

The way you talk about relationship problems makes a huge difference. If your talking often evolves into conflicts, you will want to learn these rules for relationship success. It is not communication per se that builds relationships. Rather it is both the way the we talk about things and how much the other person enjoys…

My Spouse Took Off Wedding Ring. Should I Take Off Mine if I Want to Reconcile?
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My Spouse Took Off Wedding Ring. Should I Take Off Mine if I Want to Reconcile?

A common question I hear from clients in the process of reconciling is “should I keep wearing my ring, even though my husband/wife took off his/hers?” Considerations for reconciling When trying to reconcile, should we take off our wedding ring to match our spouse? Or should we leave it on to show our continued commitment?…

What to Do When Your Wife Wants to Divorce and Be Friends
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What to Do When Your Wife Wants to Divorce and Be Friends

If your wife wants to divorce and be friends, it is because she believes she can have the best of both worlds (being single and married). You will need to follow the correct path to end your wife’s destructive fantasy and stay married. Women are being sold a lie. It’s part of the anti-family, modern…