Category: Relationship Articles

How to Love and Help an Addicted Spouse and Save Your Marriage

August 11, 2012

If your spouse is addicted to drugs or alcohol, you will need to deal with that before your relationship can improve. Trying to build a...

How to Talk About Sexual Problems in Marriage and Increase Intimacy

August 10, 2012

Sexual problems in marriage are caused by any aspect of sexuality or intimacy that makes even one of the partners dissatisfied. Unremedied, it will erode...

How to Have Better and More Enjoyable Communication in Marriage

August 9, 2012

Communicating clearly and directly what you want will promote understanding and lead to better communication in marriage If your spouse is doing something (or not...

How to Get More Respect in Your Marriage or Relationship

August 8, 2012

Love and respect go hand in hand. If you want your spouse or partner to love you more, you are going to have to...

How to Solve Marriage Problems without Arguing

August 7, 2012

Focusing on what you and your spouse both dislike about the problem will help you to solve marriage problems without arguing. Too often, people try...

How to Deal with an Angry Husband

August 5, 2012

Do you walk on eggshells around your angry husband? Telling him how you feel will only make things worse. But you can you use boundaries...

Why Petty Arguments are a Divorce Warning Sign and How to Stop Them

August 4, 2012

A divorce warning sign is intentionally being argumentative. This helps to create the emotional distance required for people to comfortably detach from their spouse. There...

What to Do When You Feel Trapped or Hopeless in Your Marriage WITHOUT Divorcing

August 3, 2012

When your partner won’t cooperate in improving your relationship you may feel trapped and hopeless. As a relationship coach who helps people with this situation...

A direct and simple approach

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“ Coach Ito, does not fluff it up and that's the best part. He tells you as it is and helps wake you up to doing it a way that makes sense. He gives you a practical approach to finding a path to consistent showing up in a way that you feel good about and others can too!”

- RIck NJ

Excellent, Direct & Effective Coaching

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“ I found Coach Ito via one of his awesome books---Overcoming Neediness. I was so impressed with the principles and directives in the book, it really helped me to understand the damage I was inflicting on my marriage because of my needy behavior. Well-- the book was great, BUT working with Coach Ito directly was INCREDIBLE! Not incredible in some magical, soft and sweet, pie in the sky kind of way---- but incredible in that Coach Ito TELLS IT LIKE IT IS! His Coaching style is full of wisdom and experience, but not for the faint hearted. You need to understand that he wants to make it clear the real problems---- and it is probably not all your partner's fault. He will call out truths--- and at the same time, give you direct and effective information to truly help you have a better relationship. It starts with YOU! I highly recommend if you are ready for truth---and ready to make a change.”

- B. Hill

Difficult at first but spot on!

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“ I was coached by Jack shortly after my wife told me she was no longer in love me and wanted to separate. I did all of the cookie-cutter actions at first; cried, begged, manipulated and became angry. Jack was straight to the point, and I was confused and frustrated at first. Many months later it all makes sense. It was almost like having a crystal ball, as everything Jack said was 100% accurate. Fast forward 2 months, my wife ended up not moving out (she had a place rented and bought all new furniture and appliances). She came to me and said she can’t believe how much I have changed, and she wants to keep our family together and go to counseling. Everything is almost like it was when we got married 13 years ago (actually better). I owe a lot of this to coach Jack...thanks Jack!”

- Jeremy PA USA

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