Marriage & Relationship Coach

Reconciling with a Husband Who Hates You (or Seems to)

Have you found it impossible to reconnect with your husband because he is so angry and rejecting? It is possible to reconnect, but probably not the way you think. In my 20 plus years of experience in counseling and coaching, there are two basic misconceptions that men and women have that make it difficult to reconcile. The first is the belief that talking about...

Reconciling with a Wife Who Hates You

There are four major steps you need to take if you want to reconcile with a wife who hates you When your wife says she hates you or is behaving that way, it is an honest reflection of her feelings. Men who want to reconcile with their wives often approach this from an analytical perspective–evaluating evidence, arguing, and attempting to persuade their wives to...

How to Fix a Sexless Marriage

A sexless marriage is often a result of other problems in the relationship.  Addressing those other problems first can contribute to a healthy sexual relationship and strengthen your marriage   Women too often underestimate the importance of an ongoing sexual relationship to the health of their marriage.  Women need to realize the importance of sex and...

Is My Wife REALLY Not in Love with Me Anymore?

One of the obstacles to reconciling is failing to believe your wife is not in love with you anymore.  You will have more success in reconciling with her if you accept this than if you don’t. Women can and do fall out of love.  Love is not some fixed quality like having an arm or a head.  It can come and go.  Which also means that it can come back again. ...

Wife Just Wants to be Friends? Responding Correctly

What does it mean when your wife  just wants to be friends? How you handle this situation can make the difference between reconciling and not My specialty is reconciling relationships when one part no longer is in love and wants out. As you can imagine, the more damage that has been done to the relationship, the longer it is likely to take. However, it is not...

Marriage Improvement: 10 Expert Ideas

Marriage improvement works best with these everyday actions. Waiting, hoping, wishing–these are the methods that most people use to have a better relationship.  They don’t work, because what is required is action.  The happiness of your marriage is not in the hands of your spouse.  Marriage improvement is in your hands.  Here are 10 things you can...

Get Respect and Love from Your Spouse

Love and respect are intimately connected–but respect comes first Respect and love are not things we think of much in our marriage until they aren’t there anymore.  Neither of these things disappear in a single day, and the drain can be so slow that we are surprised when they’re gone.  You find out your spouse has been doing something behind...

How to Make Your Wife Love You More

The one responsible for whether your wife loves you or not is the one you see in the mirror.  There is great power and opportunity in that. The more love women feel for a man, the more they value and esteem him. They live in the moment and think about him fondly when he is gone. They can’t wait to see him again, hear his voice, or even get his text...

How to Show Love in Marriage and Get More Love in Return

Helping our spouse to feel loved and important is the best way for us to protect and strengthen our marriages Many people mistakenly assume that their spouses know they are loved. If someone asked your spouse how they know that they are loved by you, what would they have to say? Hopefully, they would be able to name things that you do every day that show your...

Falling Out of Love with Your Husband or Wife (and Falling Back in Again)

Love doesn’t stop just because time passes. Finding where the damage is occurring can plug the love leak I want to tell you about 10 key reasons that our love disappears and how to get it back. If you can identify any of the ways that love is being lost in your marriage, you can work on changing that.  Some of these things just require a little effort. ...