Marriage & Relationship Coach

Marriage Improvement: 10 Expert Ideas

Marriage improvement works best with these everyday actions. Waiting, hoping, wishing–these are the methods that most people use to have a better relationship.  They don’t work, because what is required is action.  The happiness of your marriage is not in the hands of your spouse.  Marriage improvement is in your hands.  Here are 10 things you can...

Get Respect and Love from Your Spouse

Love and respect are intimately connected–but respect comes first Respect and love are not things we think of much in our marriage until they aren’t there anymore.  Neither of these things disappear in a single day, and the drain can be so slow that we are surprised when they’re gone.  You find out your spouse has been doing something behind...

How to Make Your Wife Love You More

The one responsible for whether your wife loves you or not is the one you see in the mirror.  There is great power and opportunity in that. The more love women feel for a man, the more they value and esteem him. They live in the moment and think about him fondly when he is gone. They can’t wait to see him again, hear his voice, or even get his text...

How to Show Love in Marriage

Helping our spouse to feel loved and important is the best way for us to protect and strengthen our marriage Here are 10 important ways we can show love to our spouse. 1. We show love by telling our spouse specifically why we care. Although feeling love and caring are related, they are not the same thing.  Many people who profess their feelings of love do a...

Falling Out of Love with Your Husband or Wife (and Falling Back in Again)

Love doesn’t stop just because time passes. Finding where the damage is occurring can plug the love leak. I want to tell you about 10 key reasons that our love disappears and how to get it back. If you can identify any of the ways that love is being lost in your marriage, you can work on changing that.  Some of these things just require a little effort. ...

Boring Marriage? Work on the Missing Part

A boring marriage often is just missing one thing that you can put back into your relationship. The difference between a good runner and a great runner is often just a few seconds.  The difference between a boring marriage and a satisfying relationship also is often just some little missing piece.  You can start today to put that missing piece back into your...

Help Me With My Marriage: Mentally Letting Go of a Past Love

Some relationships are hard to let go of–even when we want to. The easiest relationships to recover from are ones where you were ready to break up, you made the break up decision, and you said all that needed to be said.  You had no more hope for the relationship and were ready to move on.  In a sense, you had mentally closed the door on the relationship...

Four Principles of a Close Marriage

People who know my wife and I often ask how we achieve such a wonderful relationship. It is obvious to them that we are very much in love.  Many people who see us are surprised that we are married since we seem to have the joy and excitement of a new relationship. When I tell people (honestly) that I am more in love with my wife than I have ever been and that...

How to Be Happy With My Husband

Husband’s don’t come with owner’s manuals.  There’s no lifetime guarantee and no free maintenance either.  But, with the right care, they can give you many years of satisfaction. There is a big difference between women who have been married before and women who are married for the first time. It’s their expectations.  Although new...