Marriage & Relationship Coach

Is My Wife REALLY Not in Love with Me Anymore?

One of the obstacles to reconciling is failing to believe your wife is not in love with you anymore.  You will have more success in reconciling with her if you accept this than if you don’t. Women can and do fall out of love.  Love is not some fixed quality like having an arm or a head.  It can come and go.  Which also means that it can come back again. ...

Wife Just Wants to be Friends? Responding Correctly

What does it mean when your wife  just wants to be friends? How you handle this situation can make the difference between reconciling and not My specialty is reconciling relationships when one part no longer is in love and wants out. As you can imagine, the more damage that has been done to the relationship, the longer it is likely to take. However, it is not...

Marriage Improvement: 10 Expert Ideas

Marriage improvement works best with these everyday actions. Waiting, hoping, wishing–these are the methods that most people use to have a better relationship.  They don’t work, because what is required is action.  The happiness of your marriage is not in the hands of your spouse.  Marriage improvement is in your hands.  Here are 10 things you can...

Get Respect and Love from Your Spouse

Love and respect are intimately connected–but respect comes first Respect and love are not things we think of much in our marriage until they aren’t there anymore.  Neither of these things disappear in a single day, and the drain can be so slow that we are surprised when they’re gone.  You find out your spouse has been doing something behind...

How to Make Your Wife Love You More

The one responsible for whether your wife loves you or not is the one you see in the mirror.  There is great power and opportunity in that. The more love women feel for a man, the more they value and esteem him. They live in the moment and think about him fondly when he is gone. They can’t wait to see him again, hear his voice, or even get his text...

How to Show Love in Marriage and Get More Love in Return

Helping our spouse to feel loved and important is the best way for us to protect and strengthen our marriages Many people mistakenly assume that their spouses know they are loved. If someone asked your spouse how they know that they are loved by you, what would they have to say? Hopefully, they would be able to name things that you do every day that show your...

Falling Out of Love with Your Husband or Wife (and Falling Back in Again)

Love doesn’t stop just because time passes. Finding where the damage is occurring can plug the love leak I want to tell you about 10 key reasons that our love disappears and how to get it back. If you can identify any of the ways that love is being lost in your marriage, you can work on changing that.  Some of these things just require a little effort. ...

Marriage Restoration: Putting Togetherness Back into Your Marriage

Marriage restoration doesn’t require a total makeover.  Often it’s just a matter of breaking out of your routine. The difference between a good runner and a great runner is often just a few seconds.  The difference between a lifeless, routine marriage and a satisfying relationship also is often very small.  You don’t need to do anything risky...

Move on from a Past Relationship for a Better Marriage

Marriage is a commitment of the heart as well as everything else. To not cheat our spouse out of a close relationship, we have to move on from old ones. Some relationships are hard to let go of–even when we want to. The easiest relationships to recover from are ones where you were ready to break up, you made the break up decision, and you said all that...

Keys to a Happy Marriage

The keys to a happy marriage are the same as the keys to an enjoyable courtship. Once you start thinking of yourself as “married,” you may stop doing the important things. People who know my wife and I often ask how we achieve such a wonderful relationship. It is obvious to them that we are very much in love.  Many people who see us are surprised that we are...