A Better, More Enjoyable Way to Build Your Marriage
Relationship building requires some skills, but should not feel unenjoyable. Here are five steps that will help you and your spouse enjoy the marriage-building process.
Relationship building requires some skills, but should not feel unenjoyable. Here are five steps that will help you and your spouse enjoy the marriage-building process.
Is the way you are trying to improve your marriage really helping? Many people fail not for lack of trying, but by trying too hard with methods that don’t work. If you are willing to stop doing what feels natural and start doing what works, you can begin rebuilding connection while making the process enjoyable…
Revised June 22, 2026 How much your wife loves you mainly has to do with what you do, rather than what you convince her to feel. By making a few changes in what you do, your wife will have more loving feelings for you.
Updated June 9, 2026 You absolutely can reconcile with your spouse even if you have been separated a long time. To do that, you will have to take steps to prevent an indefinite marriage separation.
Updated April 7, 2026 Going no contact can be unbearable for you, while your spouse gets used to being without you. Discover why the no contact rule may NOT make your spouse miss you and what actually works to promote reconciling.
Despite your best efforts to reconnect with your wife, she just can’t bring herself to trust you again and is frequently angry. Do you need to give up? No, but you do need to help her let go of the anger before you get too frustrated and give up.
It feels like rejection. It’s a wall between the two of you. There’s more than one possibility for what is going on. Most importantly, you need to make sure that you are not part of the problem. We never want distance, but we can accidentally create it. Let’s find out so you can fix it…
Avoiding, fighting, distancing–you know the pattern. This cycle can only happen so many times before the loving aspect of your marriage disappears altogether. Breaking that cycle while still getting your needs met will set you on a good path. With a few skills, you can stop fight damage without needing to give up on what’s…
Updated February 17th, 2026 Ending your separation too soon could cost you your marriage. Quick and easy reconciling promotes continued affairs and emotional distancing. Today, I will give you some clear guidelines for rebuilding and living together again.
Updated February 3, 2026 Marriage restoration means making your marriage enjoyable for both of you. That doesn’t happen by repeatedly talking about problems. Instead, it happens by building your relationship with the same behavior that made each of you want to marry in the first place. Taken step by step, these steps are no conflict,…