Wife always Complains? What it Means. What You Can Do
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Wife always Complains? What it Means. What You Can Do

If your wife always complains, don’t make the mistake of just ignoring her. Complaints are a warning sign. If you don’t take care of them, you may lose your wife altogether. When your wife first started complaining, you may have tried to do things to make her happy. As the complaining continued, you probably felt…

How Neediness is Killing Your Relationship
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How Neediness is Killing Your Relationship

If you are needy, the future of your relationship depends on your willingness to: 1) be loving, and 2) to apply healthy boundaries “Needy” people put up with behavior from their significant others that most people would not tolerate.They frequently seek reassurance and are vigilant to any sign of rejection or threat to their relationship….

Can I Trust My Husband? Making an Objective Decision
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Can I Trust My Husband? Making an Objective Decision

“Can I trust my husband?” is probably something you never thought you would have to think about. But, what if you are just being naive? In my work with women whose husbands are having affairs, about half of their husbands never were trustworthy.  The other half have been trustworthy throughout the marriage. Many women are…

What to Do When You want to Trust Your Husband, But Can’t
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What to Do When You want to Trust Your Husband, But Can’t

Trust issues are a result of dishonesty and words not matching behaviors. What do you do when you want to trust, but your gut tells you not to? He tells me I should trust him.  I want to, but I can’t. Trust is something that helps our relationships to grow by allowing to us to…

How Can I Get My Husband Back?
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How Can I Get My Husband Back?

Get your husband back. Restore cooperation, communication, and connection to a damaged marriage.  If your husband is leaving you, it is because he believes he has much more to gain than to lose.  Another way to put it is that he is afraid of losing what he could have without you.  That may be another…

How to Deal with Your Own Jealousy
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How to Deal with Your Own Jealousy

Jealousy sends the message that you don’t trust your spouse. It also makes you appear more needy. The result is an increased risk of losing your partner A jealousy self test How many of the following statements can you answer “yes” to? I am concerned that I am losing my partner’s affection and that it…

How to Love a Narcissistic Sociopath
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How to Love a Narcissistic Sociopath

Is your partner charming, deceptive, manipulative and possibly dangerous? You may have fallen into the trap of a narcissistic sociopath. Many women would run, but you don’t want to. Is there a way to make it work? Have you fallen in love with a charming person who you have caught cheating on you multiple times with…

12 Ways Neediness is Hurting Your Relationship
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12 Ways Neediness is Hurting Your Relationship

How many of these needy characteristics can you find in yourself? Needy characteristics are the silent killer of people’s relationships just as high blood pressure is the silent killer of people’s health, Fortunately, just like high blood pressure, neediness can be reduced, Doing this will help you have loving, satisfying, relationships. 

How to Stop Overthinking and Stressing Out about Your Relationship
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How to Stop Overthinking and Stressing Out about Your Relationship

Overthinking your relationship will increase your feelings of stress and insecurity. This in turn will make it much more likely that you will say or do harmful things to your relationship.  The more harmful things you say or do, the more insecurity and stress you will have and so the downward spiral goes.  If you learn…

Are You Confusing Love and Respect? Respect Comes First
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Are You Confusing Love and Respect? Respect Comes First

Love and respect are intimately connected–but respect comes first Respect and love are not things we think of much in our marriage until they aren’t there anymore.  Neither of these things disappear in a single day, and the drain can be so slow that we are surprised when they’re gone.  You find out your spouse…