Your spouse will enjoy talking with you again if you can make a few simple changes in the way you talk to your spouse.

And it won’t cost you a thing

I won’t even spam you

I have created two resources to help husbands and wives to enjoy talking with each other again. These resources teach simple but powerful skills that you can start using today.

Why would I give this away? For the same reason that I put more than 100 articles on my website on relationship building. God has called me to teach people to love Him and to love each other. And, if you do need help beyond the basics, I hope that what you learn will help you to feel more sure that I am the person who can help you.

If you are a husband, click here to get the e-book tailored to helping your wife to enjoy talking with you again.
help for wives form link
If you are a wife, click here to get the lessons tailored to helping your husband to enjoy talking with you again.


If you don’t see them in your inbox, check your spam folder. The major difference between my coaching skills and what you would learn in counseling is that you don’t need to work together with your spouse. Don’t fall for the biggest lie in relationship improvement. It does NOT take two to build a relationship.

Just one person, by being attractive, by connecting, and by using good boundaries, can often create more improvement than two people could ever do by working together.

Jack Ito, PhD
Psychologist, Relationship Coach, and Author
One on One Coaching and Skills Training