I frequently try to make my spouse stop behaviors I dislike by explaining how hurtful they are.

I often set rules for my spouse that get broken repeatedly, causing frustration.

I feel resentful because my spouse continues behaviors I've clearly expressed I don't want.

I regularly find myself blaming or arguing with my spouse rather than calmly enforcing a boundary.

I avoid setting clear personal limits because I'm concerned about my spouse’s negative reactions.

My spouse often disregards my feelings without facing any clear consequences from me.

I avoid setting clear personal limits because I'm concerned about my spouse’s negative reactions.

My spouse often disregards my feelings without facing any clear consequences from me.

I frequently sacrifice my own well-being because my spouse will react poorly if I set boundaries.

I believe clearly communicating my hurt feelings should be enough to make my spouse stop harmful behaviors.

I feel my boundaries don’t work because my spouse continually violates them.

I hesitate to set clear boundaries because I fear it will damage our relationship further.