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A common question I hear from clients in the process of reconciling is “should I keep wearing my ring, even though my husband/wife took off his/hers?” Considerations for reconciling When trying to reconcile, should we take off our wedding ring to match our spouse? Or should we leave it on to show our continued commitment?…
Three causes of a sexless marriage and what you can do about it. Sex and emotional closeness are closely connected in marriage. Sex remains important throughout marriage as do emotional closeness. Taking them for granted can make both of them disappear.
There are only 2 indicators that it is too late to save your marriage. The vast majority of people give up on their marriages too soon. Lack of progress calls for different methods–it doesn’t mean it is too late to save your marriage I often receive emails from people asking if it is too late…
Many people give up too soon on their marriages, believing them to be over when they are not. There are only 2 situations that signal your marriage is over. Most of the people I help to reconcile have spouses who at first said, “It’s over.” What this really means is, RIGHT NOW she doesn’t want to…
The keys to a happy marriage are the same as the keys to an enjoyable courtship. Once you start thinking of yourself as “married,” you may stop doing the important things. People who know my wife and I often ask how we achieve such a wonderful relationship. It is obvious to them that we are…
You can get your husband to love you more by making a few important changes in yourself Some women find that their husbands have lost interest in them. Instead of love, they see a tired or impatient look in their husband’s eyes. And, these women feel less important than the TV, or computer, or even…
Husbands can help you to be happy, but you must be sure you are doing your part in order to get the best from them. Our expectations are the single biggest factor in our happiness. They influence not only how we feel, but they also influence how we behave. For example, there is a big…
Marriage improvement works best with these everyday actions. Waiting, hoping, wishing–these are the methods that most people use to have a better relationship. They don’t work, because what is required is action. The happiness of your marriage is not in the hands of your spouse. Marriage improvement is in your hands. Here are 10 things…
Getting a reluctant spouse to go to marriage counseling is usually counterproductive. There is a much better approach that you can use until he or she is ready. People who want to go to marriage counseling often feel stuck if their spouse refuses to go. This does not spell doom for your marriage and…
Helping our spouse to feel loved and important is the best way for us to protect and strengthen our marriages Many people mistakenly assume that their spouses know they are loved. If someone asked your spouse how they know that they are loved by you, what would they have to say? Hopefully, they would be…