4 Keys to a Happy Marriage–They Are Not what You Think
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4 Keys to a Happy Marriage–They Are Not what You Think

The keys to a happy marriage are the same as the keys to an enjoyable courtship. Once you start thinking of yourself as “married,” you may stop doing the important things. People who know my wife and I often ask how we achieve such a wonderful relationship. It is obvious to them that we are…

10 Ideas to Improve Your Marriage without Discussing Problems
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10 Ideas to Improve Your Marriage without Discussing Problems

Marriage improvement works best with these everyday actions. Waiting, hoping, wishing–these are the methods that most people use to have a better relationship.  They don’t work, because what is required is action.  The happiness of your marriage is not in the hands of your spouse.  Marriage improvement is in your hands.  Here are 10 things…

How to Know if You Are a Needy, Codependent, or Secure Spouse
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How to Know if You Are a Needy, Codependent, or Secure Spouse

Are you a needy spouse or married to one? Are you a codependent for your spouse’s damaging behavior? A few changes can help you to be a secure, loving couple again In my daily coaching I encounter three basic relationship styles that cause confusion and conflict for both men and women.  Couples are confused because…

How to Improve a Relationship with a Husband who has Psychological Problems
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How to Improve a Relationship with a Husband who has Psychological Problems

Are you trying so hard to help your spouse with his psychological disorder that you have stopped being a partner and are more like a mother? Good intentions don’t always make a good relationship.  When help becomes excessive, partnership becomes parenting.  When that happens, his sexual interest falls, he will go to you for help…