How to Convince Your Husband to Go to Marriage Counseling
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How to Convince Your Husband to Go to Marriage Counseling

Simple steps to convince your husband to go to marriage counseling There are some good reasons that could make your husband refuse marriage counseling.  Fortunately, you can overcome his objections by helping him to see what is in it for him. Here are some ideas that you can use to motivate him.

What to Do When Your Husband Wants Space or to Separate
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What to Do When Your Husband Wants Space or to Separate

If your husband wants space or husband is moving out to get space, you can manage this is a good way. First, start by understanding what he is really doing. Your husband moved out or wants to. He told you that he needs time or space to figure out what he wants. What you need…

How to Prevent Marriage Failure Even When there are a Lot of Problems
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How to Prevent Marriage Failure Even When there are a Lot of Problems

Marriage doesn’t protect you. You must protect your marriage. I have worked with thousands of men, women, and couples over the last 20+ years.  In this article, I want to share with you what I have observed to be the most common causes for marriage and relationship breakdowns.  Although the divorce rate and rate of…

When Your Spouse Won’t Go to Marriage Counseling
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When Your Spouse Won’t Go to Marriage Counseling

Getting a reluctant spouse to go to marriage counseling is usually counterproductive. There is a much better approach that you can use until he or she is ready.   People who want to go to marriage counseling often feel stuck if their spouse refuses to go.  This does not spell doom for your marriage and…

How to Make Your Wife Feel Loved and Stay with You
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How to Make Your Wife Feel Loved and Stay with You

Women who don’t feel loved eventually fall out of love and leave their husbands. Learning how to make her feel loved now can prevent a world of hurt later. I work with many men who are in the process of winning their wives back. In most cases, although they loved their wives throughout their marriage,…

I Changed Like She Wanted, So Why Won’t My Wife Come Back to Me?
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I Changed Like She Wanted, So Why Won’t My Wife Come Back to Me?

Okay, you messed up in the past, but now you are doing all that she ever wanted plus more. Still, your wife won’t come back. What’s going on? Some men are in such a rush to reconcile that they make mistakes like pressuring their wives, offering solutions to problems their wives currently have no interest…

What Should I Tell My Adult Children about My Marriage Problems?
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What Should I Tell My Adult Children about My Marriage Problems?

Sooner or later your adult children are going to know there is a problem. When you want to reconcile with your spouse, you must be careful not to alienate your spouse from the kids Many people find out the hard way that confiding in their adult children about their marriage problems is not always the…

Discover the Real Reason Your Spouse Wants a Divorce
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Discover the Real Reason Your Spouse Wants a Divorce

How can it be that your spouse wants a divorce after years of marriage and all you have had together? Understanding the fundamental reason is your key to reconciling. People are often shocked when their spouse wants a divorce.  Yet, when I ask them how long their relationship had been bad before that, they often…

Why Petty Arguments are a  Divorce Warning Sign and How to Stop Them
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Why Petty Arguments are a Divorce Warning Sign and How to Stop Them

A divorce warning sign is intentionally being argumentative. This helps to create the emotional distance required for people to comfortably detach from their spouse. There are two times in marriage when you would expect intentional argumentativeness.  The first is at the beginning of marriage when the couple are adjusting to a thousand little differences. The…

What to Do When You Feel Trapped  or Hopeless in Your Marriage WITHOUT Divorcing
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What to Do When You Feel Trapped or Hopeless in Your Marriage WITHOUT Divorcing

When your partner won’t cooperate in improving your relationship you may feel trapped and hopeless. As a relationship coach who helps people with this situation every day, I can tell you there is hope. Mult-step plans that are under your control can re-create a happy relationship.  When people have these two beliefs at the same…