How to Deal with Your Own Jealousy
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How to Deal with Your Own Jealousy

Jealousy sends the message that you don’t trust your spouse. It also makes you appear more needy. The result is an increased risk of losing your partner A jealousy self test How many of the following statements can you answer “yes” to? I am concerned that I am losing my partner’s affection and that it…

7 Separation Boundaries that Promote Reconciliation after Separation
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7 Separation Boundaries that Promote Reconciliation after Separation

Having good separation boundaries will prevent your spouse from having his (or her) cake and eating it, too. That, along with connecting with your spouse and being attractive, will promote reconciling. Many people do reconcile after separation.  Many people do not.  What makes the difference between these two groups?  It is the behavior of the…

Why You Need to Make Your Relationship a Priority
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Why You Need to Make Your Relationship a Priority

Failing to make your relationship a priority will ultimately result in your spouse no longer making your relationship a priority. Whatever you prioritize in life, you can keep.  Are your priorities making your link to your spouse stronger or weaker?  What change do you need to make in your priorities to keep your relationship strong?

How to Convince Your Husband to Go to Marriage Counseling
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How to Convince Your Husband to Go to Marriage Counseling

Simple steps to convince your husband to go to marriage counseling There are some good reasons that could make your husband refuse marriage counseling.  Fortunately, you can overcome his objections by helping him to see what is in it for him. Here are some ideas that you can use to motivate him.

What to Do When Your Husband Wants Space or to Separate
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What to Do When Your Husband Wants Space or to Separate

If your husband wants space or husband is moving out to get space, you can manage this is a good way. First, start by understanding what he is really doing. Your husband moved out or wants to. He told you that he needs time or space to figure out what he wants. What you need…

How to Prevent Marriage Failure Even When there are a Lot of Problems
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How to Prevent Marriage Failure Even When there are a Lot of Problems

Marriage doesn’t protect you. You must protect your marriage. I have worked with thousands of men, women, and couples over the last 20+ years.  In this article, I want to share with you what I have observed to be the most common causes for marriage and relationship breakdowns.  Although the divorce rate and rate of…

When Your Spouse Won’t Go to Marriage Counseling
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When Your Spouse Won’t Go to Marriage Counseling

Getting a reluctant spouse to go to marriage counseling is usually counterproductive. There is a much better approach that you can use until he or she is ready.   People who want to go to marriage counseling often feel stuck if their spouse refuses to go.  This does not spell doom for your marriage and…

How to Make Your Wife Feel Loved and Stay with You
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How to Make Your Wife Feel Loved and Stay with You

Women who don’t feel loved eventually fall out of love and leave their husbands. Learning how to make her feel loved now can prevent a world of hurt later. I work with many men who are in the process of winning their wives back. In most cases, although they loved their wives throughout their marriage,…

I Changed Like She Wanted, So Why Won’t My Wife Come Back to Me?
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I Changed Like She Wanted, So Why Won’t My Wife Come Back to Me?

Okay, you messed up in the past, but now you are doing all that she ever wanted plus more. Still, your wife won’t come back. What’s going on? Some men are in such a rush to reconcile that they make mistakes like pressuring their wives, offering solutions to problems their wives currently have no interest…

What Should I Tell My Adult Children about My Marriage Problems?
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What Should I Tell My Adult Children about My Marriage Problems?

Sooner or later your adult children are going to know there is a problem. When you want to reconcile with your spouse, you must be careful not to alienate your spouse from the kids Many people find out the hard way that confiding in their adult children about their marriage problems is not always the…