How to Prevent Divorce and Reconnect while Separated
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How to Prevent Divorce and Reconnect while Separated

You can win your husband or wife back after separation. Without the stresses of living together, this is a good time to reconnect emotionally with your spouse. There is hope for your marriage after separation! Reconciling works best when you don’t try to do it in one step. In fact, it often doesn’t work at…

How to Get Your Wife to Love You Again
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How to Get Your Wife to Love You Again

You can get your wife to fall in love with you again, even if she says “it’s over.” The no convincing, no conflict approach to rebuilding a relationship Your wife told you she doesn’t love you and has either left you or is planning to. She had some very good reasons to stop loving you, and…

Does Giving Space or Going “No Contact” Help to Reconcile?
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Does Giving Space or Going “No Contact” Help to Reconcile?

Giving space can be unbearable for you, while your spouse gets used to being without you. Discover why the no contact rule may NOT make your spouse miss you and what you can do to promote reconciling. Absence can make a heart grow fonder. But that is only true for a heart that is fond…

How to Persuade Your Spouse Not to Separate for Practical Reasons
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How to Persuade Your Spouse Not to Separate for Practical Reasons

Do you want to persuade your spouse to stay together for practical reasons (kids, finances, home, business) while your spouse wants to separate because your relationship is not emotionally close? This kind of problem is common when husbands and wives are from different cultures. It is also common when one spouse is very traditional, while…

Do You Know the Signs Your Marriage Is Over–And When it Is Not?
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Do You Know the Signs Your Marriage Is Over–And When it Is Not?

By far, the the bigger mistake people mistake is thinking that their marriage is over when it is not. This is a false conclusion which comes from not knowing what to try next For every person who works with me to save their marriage, there are many others who have given up in the very…

Is It too Late to Save Your Marriage?
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Is It too Late to Save Your Marriage?

There are only 2 indicators that it is too late to save your marriage. The vast majority of people give up on their marriages too soon. Lack of progress calls for different methods–it doesn’t mean it is too late to save your marriage I often receive emails from people asking if it is too late…

When is My Marriage Over? And When is it Not?
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When is My Marriage Over? And When is it Not?

Many people give up too soon on their marriages, believing them to be over when they are not. There are only 2 situations that signal your marriage is over. Most of the people I help to reconcile have spouses who at first said, “It’s over.” What this really means is, RIGHT NOW she doesn’t want to…

What to Do When Your Wife Wants to Separate
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What to Do When Your Wife Wants to Separate

Your marriage is not over when your wife wants to separate.  Handled correctly, this can be a good opportunity for your marriage to become better than ever. If you are like most of the men I work with and your wife wants to separate, that came as a complete surprise to you. Even if your…

Can I Trust My Husband? Making an Objective Decision
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Can I Trust My Husband? Making an Objective Decision

“Can I trust my husband?” is probably something you never thought you would have to think about. But, what if you are just being naive? In my work with women whose husbands are having affairs, about half of their husbands never were trustworthy.  The other half have been trustworthy throughout the marriage. Many women are…

How Can I Get My Husband Back?
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How Can I Get My Husband Back?

Get your husband back. Restore cooperation, communication, and connection to a damaged marriage.  If your husband is leaving you, it is because he believes he has much more to gain than to lose.  Another way to put it is that he is afraid of losing what he could have without you.  That may be another…