If Your Husband Wants Space, Here’s How to Respond
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If Your Husband Wants Space, Here’s How to Respond

What does it mean when your husband wants to separate and have space? How you respond to this message can make all the difference in saving your marriage. Let’s say your husband moved out or wants to. He told you that he needs time or space to figure out what he wants. What you need…

How to Have Lasting Relationships and Loving Marriages
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How to Have Lasting Relationships and Loving Marriages

Combining healthy expectations with relationship building behaviors will give you a satisfying relationship. I have worked with thousands of men, women, and couples over the last 30 years. Today, I want to share with you some core skills for relationship success. You can then start to put these skills to use right away. To benefit, you…

Spouse Won’t Go to Marriage Counseling? How to Improve Your Marriage
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Spouse Won’t Go to Marriage Counseling? How to Improve Your Marriage

Many people think there is no way to improve their marriage if their spouse won’t go to marriage counseling. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Although you may be upset with your spouse, you need to realize that your spouse does not want a bad relationship any more than you do. Bad relationships are…

How to Make Your Wife Feel Loved and Want to Stay
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How to Make Your Wife Feel Loved and Want to Stay

Women who don’t feel loved eventually fall out of love and leave their husbands. Learning how to make her feel loved now can prevent a world of hurt later. I work with many men who want to win their wives back. In most cases, they loved their wives but did a poor job of making…

I Changed Like She Wanted, So Why Won’t My Wife Come Back to Me?
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I Changed Like She Wanted, So Why Won’t My Wife Come Back to Me?

Okay, you messed up in the past, but now you are doing all that she ever wanted plus more. Still, your wife won’t come back. What’s going on? Men get scared when their wives want to separate or divorce. Because of that, they try to quickly change their wife’s decision. What they typically do is…

How to Talk to Your Adult Children about Your Marriage Problems
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How to Talk to Your Adult Children about Your Marriage Problems

Sooner or later your adult children are going to know there is a problem. When you want to reconcile with your spouse, you must be careful not to alienate your spouse from the kids. Many people find out the hard way that confiding in their adult children about their marriage problems is not always the…

Your Spouse’s Real Reasons for Wanting a Divorce
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Your Spouse’s Real Reasons for Wanting a Divorce

Although most spouses say they want a divorce because of problems in the marriage, rarely is that the actual reason. Understanding the real reason your spouse wants a divorce will help you know how to work on reconciling. People are often shocked when their spouse wants a divorce. Yet, when I ask them how their relationship…

Divorce Warning Sign: Petty Arguments and How to Rebuild
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Divorce Warning Sign: Petty Arguments and How to Rebuild

Sometimes arguing is an attempt to address a legitimate issue, sometimes it signals a desire for more closeness, and sometimes it is a signal of an impending affair or divorce. If your spouse is picking arguments, you will need to be able to discern and respond correctly. At the beginning of marriage, arguments are common….

How to Turn a Hopeless Marriage into a Hopeful One
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How to Turn a Hopeless Marriage into a Hopeful One

Do you feel like giving up on your marriage? Before you do that, make sure you have done all you can to make it better for you and your spouse. As a relationship coach I help people to turn around even very bad marriages. They hire me after they have tried on their own to…

Q & A About How to Reconcile After a Marital Separation
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Q & A About How to Reconcile After a Marital Separation

Knowing the answers to a few simple questions can make the difference between reconciling or not, following a marital separation Are you wondering if you will be able to reconcile? Are you unsure about how to do that? What if there has been an affair? What if you’ve already tried to reconcile and it went…