Why Your Husband Is So Angry and What to Do About It
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Why Your Husband Is So Angry and What to Do About It

To understand why your husband is so angry, you need to understand his motivations rather than just focusing on what he is blaming you for When your husband is so angry, it is easy to focus on his behavior. He will either be blaming your or withdrawing from you. These behaviors damage your marriage without…

How to Stop Arguing about Money and Improve Your Relationship
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How to Stop Arguing about Money and Improve Your Relationship

Financial problems in marriage have both a financial aspect and a relationship aspect. You must deal with both for the sake of your relationship. The answer to financial problems is simple, but the answer to financial problems in marriage is not.  First, let’s consider the simple answer to financial problems–increase income and decrease expenses until…

Why Fighting About Money Is Really a Relationship Issue
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Why Fighting About Money Is Really a Relationship Issue

Fighting about money says more about a couple’s relationship than it does about their bank account Fighting never has been a good way to resolve any problem. Can you imagine a financial counselor saying, “I can see that there is a real inequity in your relationship.  One of you makes and spends most of the…

Why Spouses Blame: Loving and Helping Your Blaming Spouse
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Why Spouses Blame: Loving and Helping Your Blaming Spouse

Why is your spouse blaming you? Is it really about you, or is it something about your spouse? Understanding the causes of blaming is a good step toward stopping it. Being blamed a lot by your spouse is a different experience than occasionally being blamed. Reasonable and loving spouses will sometimes blame, and when they…

How to Avoid Parenting Conflicts with Your Controlling Spouse
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How to Avoid Parenting Conflicts with Your Controlling Spouse

Here are some things you can do to reduce or eliminate parenting conflict with a controlling spouse Taking the direct approach with a controlling spouse is like going head to head with a mountain goat.  A controlling spouse will not back down, will not be reasonable, and will not admit you are right–no matter how…

How to Deal with an Angry Husband
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How to Deal with an Angry Husband

Do you walk on eggshells around your angry husband? Telling him how you feel will only make things worse. But you can you use boundaries to help him get over his anger issues. All of your family members will benefit–including your husband. Love him enough to help him change. Your husband is getting angry with…