How to Make Your Boyfriend want to Marry You
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How to Make Your Boyfriend want to Marry You

Some people get commitment easier than others. The reasons are not what you think. It will help you if you learn what really gets men to commit. Let’s imagine you are single and have been in a relationship with a man for a long time. Perhaps even years. He says that he loves you, you…

How to Stop Overthinking and Stressing Out about Your Relationship
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How to Stop Overthinking and Stressing Out about Your Relationship

Do you spend more time worrying about your relationship than you do enjoying it? If you do, you will be more upset when even little upsets happen. You will also tend to overreact to your spouse’s words and behaviors. You will be watchful and try to figure out the deeper meanings behind them.

How to Identify a Needy, Dependent, Codependent, or Secure Spouse
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How to Identify a Needy, Dependent, Codependent, or Secure Spouse

You will never learn how to have a good relationship from following social trends. You must use relationship styles that have worked for thousands of years to have a lasting relationship. In my coaching I encounter three basic relationship styles that cause confusion and conflict for both men and women. Often what people consider to…

Go from Needy to Secure to Save Your Relationship
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Go from Needy to Secure to Save Your Relationship

Are you feeling frustrated and angry in your relationship because your partner is not making the changes you need to feel loved?  Replace needy ineffective behaviors with secure behaviors to get him or her to make the changes you want. A needy person is not what you think. Needy does not refer to dependent.  A…

How Neediness is Killing Your Relationship
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How Neediness is Killing Your Relationship

If you are needy, the future of your relationship depends on your willingness to: 1) be loving, and 2) to apply healthy boundaries “Needy” people put up with behavior from their significant others that most people would not tolerate.They frequently seek reassurance and are vigilant to any sign of rejection or threat to their relationship….