How Neediness Can Push a Spouse Toward an Affair
Neediness in marriage contributes to many affairs. The things you are doing in your effort to improve your marriage may actually be pushing your spouse away. Updated October 13, 2026
How to Overcome Neediness and Save Your Relationship
Neediness can quietly sabotage your relationship—often without you even realizing it. The good news? You can replace those subtle, damaging habits with secure and loving behaviors that make your marriage stronger than ever.
How to Make Your Boyfriend want to Marry You
Some people get commitment easier than others. The reasons are not what you think. It will help you if you learn what really gets men to commit. Let’s imagine you are single and have been in a relationship with a man for a long time. Perhaps even years. He says that he loves you, you…
How to Stop Overthinking and Stressing Out about Your Relationship
Do you spend more time worrying about your relationship than you do enjoying it? If you do, you will be more upset when even little upsets happen. You will also tend to overreact to your spouse’s words and behaviors. You will be watchful and try to figure out the deeper meanings behind them.
How to Identify a Needy, Dependent, Codependent, or Secure Spouse
You will never learn how to have a good relationship from following social trends. You must use relationship styles that have worked for thousands of years to have a lasting relationship. In my coaching I encounter three basic relationship styles that cause confusion and conflict for both men and women. Often what people consider to…
Go from Needy to Secure to Save Your Relationship
Are you feeling frustrated and angry in your relationship because your partner is not making the changes you need to feel loved? Replace needy ineffective behaviors with secure behaviors to get him or her to make the changes you want. A needy person is not what you think. Needy does not refer to dependent. A…
