Go from Needy to Secure to Save Your Relationship
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Go from Needy to Secure to Save Your Relationship

Are you feeling frustrated and angry in your relationship because your partner is not making the changes you need to feel loved?  Replace needy ineffective behaviors with secure behaviors to get him or her to make the changes you want. A needy person is not what you think. Needy does not refer to dependent.  A…

How Neediness is Killing Your Relationship
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How Neediness is Killing Your Relationship

If you are needy, the future of your relationship depends on your willingness to: 1) be loving, and 2) to apply healthy boundaries “Needy” people put up with behavior from their significant others that most people would not tolerate.They frequently seek reassurance and are vigilant to any sign of rejection or threat to their relationship….

How to Stop Overthinking and Stressing Out about Your Relationship
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How to Stop Overthinking and Stressing Out about Your Relationship

Overthinking your relationship will increase your feelings of stress and insecurity. This in turn will make it much more likely that you will say or do harmful things to your relationship.  The more harmful things you say or do, the more insecurity and stress you will have and so the downward spiral goes.  If you learn…

How to Know if You Are a Needy, Codependent, or Secure Spouse
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How to Know if You Are a Needy, Codependent, or Secure Spouse

Are you a needy spouse or married to one? Are you a codependent for your spouse’s damaging behavior? A few changes can help you to be a secure, loving couple again In my daily coaching I encounter three basic relationship styles that cause confusion and conflict for both men and women.  Couples are confused because…

How to Improve a Relationship with a Husband who has Psychological Problems
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How to Improve a Relationship with a Husband who has Psychological Problems

Are you trying so hard to help your spouse with his psychological disorder that you have stopped being a partner and are more like a mother? Good intentions don’t always make a good relationship.  When help becomes excessive, partnership becomes parenting.  When that happens, his sexual interest falls, he will go to you for help…