When to Let a Spouse who Cheated Move Back In
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When to Let a Spouse who Cheated Move Back In

If you take your cheating husband or wife back too soon, that is needy and encourages continued affairs. So, when should you take your cheating spouse back? Many people, in their desire to reconcile, will take a cheating spouse back too quickly.  The problem with this is that their spouses are still overcoming their attraction…

How to Get Your Wife Back after Separation
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How to Get Your Wife Back after Separation

Winning your wife back after separation requires a step by step approach. The right moves to make. How long it takes to reconcile. If I asked your wife if she loved you, she would probably tell me that she loves you, but that she is not in-love with you. Regardless of what has gone on…

How to Prevent Divorce and Reconnect while Separated
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How to Prevent Divorce and Reconnect while Separated

You can win your husband or wife back after separation. Without the stresses of living together, this is a good time to reconnect emotionally with your spouse. There is hope for your marriage after separation! Reconciling works best when you don’t try to do it in one step. In fact, it often doesn’t work at…

How to Get Your Wife to Love You Again
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How to Get Your Wife to Love You Again

You can get your wife to fall in love with you again, even if she says “it’s over.” The no convincing, no conflict approach to rebuilding a relationship Your wife told you she doesn’t love you and has either left you or is planning to. She had some very good reasons to stop loving you, and…

Does Giving Space or Going “No Contact” Help to Reconcile?
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Does Giving Space or Going “No Contact” Help to Reconcile?

Giving space can be unbearable for you, while your spouse gets used to being without you. Discover why the no contact rule may NOT make your spouse miss you and what you can do to promote reconciling. Absence can make a heart grow fonder. But that is only true for a heart that is fond…

How to Persuade Your Spouse Not to Separate for Practical Reasons
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How to Persuade Your Spouse Not to Separate for Practical Reasons

Do you want to persuade your spouse to stay together for practical reasons (kids, finances, home, business) while your spouse wants to separate because your relationship is not emotionally close? This kind of problem is common when husbands and wives are from different cultures. It is also common when one spouse is very traditional, while…

Is a Trial Separation Helpful or Harmful for Reconciling?
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Is a Trial Separation Helpful or Harmful for Reconciling?

A trial separation is a time limited, structured separation, best used when both spouses want to build their relationship. Unstructured separations, on the other hand, are much more helpful when only one spouse wants to reconcile. Trial separation is a method commonly used by marriage counselors. Marriage counselors work with couples when both want to rebuild their…

How to Rebuild while Separated: Marital Separation Do’s and Don’ts
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How to Rebuild while Separated: Marital Separation Do’s and Don’ts

Marital separation (living in different homes), can be a good opportunity for rebuilding your relationship. It can also result in ending your relationship if not done in a good way. When you are separated, you are likely to be overly focused on ending the separation. This is natural because you miss your spouse and just…