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A Radical Approach to Relationships!
“Until I read Jack's work and used his coaching, I had no idea how disconnecting it is to argue with your spouse. I was also practicing "Needy" behaviors as outlined in his book, "Overcome Neediness and Get the Love You Want." His techniques for connecting through agreement and overcoming neediness were different than any other coaching or relationship self-help books I have seen anywhere! Even though it is likely too late to save my marriage (my husband is having an affair with a girl 30 years his junior), I feel this information and coaching will be invaluable for my future relationships - not just with my spouse, but everyone in my life. I am also learning how to have firm and loving boundaries. My only problem with Coach Jack is that I wish I had found him sooner! Then perhaps our marriage could have been saved. - Gratefully, Maureen”
Empowering during a trial separation
“My wife and I had been separated for a month when I engaged Coach Jack. The separation was initiated by my wife and it came as a complete shock to me. I sought answers for how to explain what happened. There are plenty of fantastic books on marriage out there. Though all they did was reinforce what I should have been doing all along to prevent landing into the situation I am in. There are a few books on separation though they didn't quite resonate with my situation. These books often put a primary focus on applying love and biblical principles, which could work if your spouse is receptive to that treatment/guilt. When you are the left-behind spouse, this approach can lead to a lot of rejection. The use of "love" is often too late for a spouse who now sees you as desperate and wants space from you. Coach Jack was able to give me practical steps to gradually emotionally reconnect with my wife and to immediately stop damaging behaviors that push her away or lead to more rejection. He taught me a different style of communication (that you can read about in his book "Connecting Through 'Yes!'") which has been very helpful in the re-connection process. I have definitely noticed improvement in how my wife and I communicate after just one month. Coach Jack really cuts to the chase and you need to be ready to accept some hard truths about your situation. He doesn't promise a quick fix. He was clear that the process can take months with many pitfalls along the way. I highly recommend using Coach Jack's services. If you're still undecided, thoroughly read through the articles in his archive. If you find that resonates with your situation then you should really consider using him.”
- Rob in Texax
“Over a year ago coach jack helped save my marriage and more recently, his coaching did it again! His online resources are amazing but his book “Connecting through Yes” is a MUST as well as coaching sessions when you need help. Don’t make the mistake I made by falling into old repetitive relationship-DAMAGING behaviors ! Remember what he has taught you and stay with it!”
“Coach Ito was to the point and clear. There was no sugar- coating of the advice. You must be willing to hear his analysis of what you are doing right and what you are doing wrong and be open to modifying your own behavior in order to reach your goals in a relationship. You can either take the advice or reject it but either way, hearing it will benefit you. His insights are the result of his experience and his training, so he speaks to real life human behavior patterns not fairytales. As such, his comments resonate and break through preconceived notions allowing real action to be taken. The book he wrote Connecting Through Yes was the single most impactful piece of material I have encountered pertaining to relationships. It, along with his specific coaching sessions, were instrumental in giving me power over my own life.”
Supportive and effective
“Coach Jack's primary focus is helping you get what you want in very clear and direct ways. He is very quick to analyze situations and provide valuable insight and clear action plans that are incredibly effective. He gives his advice in a way that is easy to understand and follow!”
Hear what needs to be heard
“Working with Jack was a valuable learning experience. He’s encouraging when he needs to be, supportive when he needs to be and not afraid to call you out when he needs to. I highly recommend Jack’s books and especially his coaching.”
- Russell R
“I was totally lost, but with Jack's help, I started to see a bit clearer. I still haven't reconciled yet but it's looking better. Thanks for your help Jack.”
- Jason in Canada
Flipping the script
“Jack was honest and clear in his guidance about what would have the greatest impact. He highlighted for me how my critical communication habits were unhelpful in my relationship . I’m working on that to create more connection moving forward. Thank you Jack.”
- Betty from England
“Coach Ito provides great advice for any relationship crisis. His advice is very practical and goes into much more detail than anything you will find on the Internet. He provides great examples and solutions to assist in meeting your needs that are applicable and work. His tactics are smart and work. I highly recommend his coaching for anyone looking to improve or save a relationship from the brink of disaster.”
Acquire exceptional life changing skills
“This review is a delayed action to a much deserving gift. It has been an incredible experience a gift and privilege using the services of Dr Ito. With Jack’s coaching I managed even with several slips to avoid divorcing and have my wife fall back in love with me (and me falling back in love with her all over again). I wish I listened closer to everything that Jack pointed to me and suggested I do from day one. Some of the hardest things he suggested would have saved a lot of pain I endured in the process. I am still working on improving myself almost a year later from my last sessions and following the skills I learned in my sessions. The skills acquired from the coaching sessions are useful to me in my everyday life and in many difficult situations and relationships outside my marriage. I mentioned to Coach Jack a while back that his coaching is life changing and he was very humble about it. If you are facing critical issues with your spouse and/or also want to improve your life in multiple areas and/or relationships you will be doing yourself a great favor by signing up for his services.”
“Jack has been an exceptional coach. His advice is very clear and helpful. He was very good at teaching specific skills that had a direct impact on my ability to connect better with my husband. Sometimes I did not want to hear what he had to say, but what he had to say was always truthful and enlightening. Thank you Jack!”
Good, solid relationship counsel
“As uncomfortable as it is to admit it, we contribute to the problems in our relationships. Jack helped me to see how I could react differently, which empowered me and encouraged me to continue to work at it. It is a process, but all of his counsel has proved to be effective. I would recommend him to anyone who is willing to face the truth and grow.”
Clear, effective and impactful
“When my wife and I became disconnected, I started working on myself and searched for answers in multiple places - from books and articles to professional help. By far the most impactful work I've done was with Coach Jack. Coach Jack was able to identify the issues with my marriage that I've been struggling with finding. Walking out of every coaching session, I had a level of confidence and clarity that I haven't experienced before. I started applying the skills Coach Jack taught me and immediately began noticing results, both in connecting better with my wife, and also with others around me. I'm incredibly grateful for Coach Jack's help and I highly recommend his services.”
Simple But Highly Effective
“Coach Jack makes difficult concepts simple and breaks things down into highly impactful techniques -- he was a life saver. Before speaking to Jack, I was doing the absolute wrong things.”
Custom fit Coaching
“Coach Jack meets you where you are at in the relationship. I had a lot of what I thought were “unique “ to me problems with my marriage and he was able to break things down in a way I could confront and change my behavior to handle any issues that came up. Before working with Jack I was going constant turmoil over my marriage and what to do... now I have the skills to stop the damaging behaviors and build back the love and trust that was broken. Most importantly I feel empowered in my relationship and not a victim. Thanks so very much Jack!!”
Being a secure and attractive person
“Being real and having a realist view of me and my relationship was just a starting point of what Coach Ito helped me with. That first step has helped with my mindset about being a secure and attractive man where in any relationship I can be genuine and a loving person. I am deeply grateful for his honesty and insights along with his support on my journey.”
“Dr. Ito provided me with great information to guide me through my relationship journey. He is direct but understanding. As he pointed out, practice & practice and don't be afraid to make mistakes. I really appreciate his help”
“Dr Jack saved my marriage. I reconciled after a separation almost exclusively because of the tips and guidance of Jack Ito. I am beyond grateful.”
- Martin from Poland
Practical, Applicable Insight.
“5 Stars! I HIGHLY recommend talking to Dr. Jack. He offers brilliant insight, practical wisdom and applicable advice. The best relationship building information I've ever received.”
Great Relationship Coaching!
“Coach Jack was really honest and I could tell he had a lot of experience in knowing what to do immediately after my first session right after my wife told me "I don't love you anymore" and the shock hadn't worn out yet. I also read all of his articles in his web page and they were extremely helpful. I also bought his book on communication through agreement and with his coaching, it really helped me make an immediate impact with my wife and get her to feel relaxed and wanting to be with me more than before she left that she could not believe how I was so accepting and it was obviously due to coach Jack because he helped me see the benefits to doing this versus reacting to my emotions. He also helped me transition more peacefully into the "separation stage" with my wife because it was a really tough and confusing time for me and I would have probably been devastated or worse off if I did not get his advise since he told me what to expect and really calmed my nerves. Although my wife and I are not yet reconciled, we now have a better relationship and are starting to date a little bit more now with dinners/lunches through Coach Jack's program only after one month. You would be very smart to use his relationship services. Thanks Coach Jack!”
- Neil C from Kansas
“I learned new skills today and a new way of thinking. I am excited and suddenly a lot of fog and uncertainty appears to be lifted from my mind. I can now at least see a path as to how to save my relationship or at the very least get my life back in my own control.Overcome inertia and realize that there is always something you can do to make a meaningful difference.”
Changed my relationship
“I worked with coach Jack for 4 weeks he has given me tools I weren't even aware of. The best part is that I can use these tools and grow closer to my husband every day. Thank you coach Jack for everything. The skills I have learned has helped us so much! God bless!”
“My husband is having an affair and I asked him to move out because he chose her. He has been gone 22 days now, sleeping on his boat. Jack has helped me immensely in approaching this situation in a rational and easy, step by step fashion. He has empowered me to ask the questions that needed to be asked. He also taught me ways to connect with people and gave fantastic advice on how to communicate with my husband and others. He is positive, upbeat and brutally honest, which is appreciated greatly. He also has written many articles and books which are proving to be enormously helpful. I highly recommend him as a relationship or marital coach.”
Things can get better
“My wife separated from me and told me she was talking to and had feelings for someone else. She said she knew she would never feel different about me. I waited 6 months to get coaching and was making many mistakes. Jack can teach you how to be a confident secure man. With his coaching I’m in a much better place and it’s helping me attract my wife again. There is much more power than you think in your ability to behave in a way that can re attract your wife.”
“After a consultation session, I felt understood and was given honest and clear feedback as to how to improve myself. Made the world of difference for me. I will use Dr Ito again when needed”
Fantastic Coach Jack!
“If you want personalized help, skip internet, skip books, get Coach Jack! I came to Dr Ito (Coach Jack) at a very desperate time. Highly analytical person by nature, I was engulfed by an unfamiliar, disorienting feeling of helplessness. I searched internet far and wide. Dr Ito's words were the only ones that resonated with the logical side of me. During the 4 week program, Coach Jack had proven himself as a master coach. He understood my unique cultural background and spoke to me in a way that got me to take action. In two session I was already much better. After 3 weeks, I was already back to my analytical self and was thinking of skipping lesson. But the forth and final lesson was where huge unexpected progress was made. Coach Jack spotted the single biggest problem with my communication style. A style that gave me professional success but is detrimental to my relationships. I think Coach Jack's 4 week coaching program offers great value for me. I never bother with review but I offered to do this for Coach Jack because I think his coaching had been transformative. It has been 2 weeks since my last coaching session. Life is filled with new challenges and I still find it useful to revisit notes/words from Coach Jack's session than searching random answers on the internet. Thank you again, Coach Jack.””
- Alice from Sydney Australia
Fountain of Knowledge
“I love my wife to death, but that love just wasn't shining through. Even when it seemed like I was on the side of reason and even with the best intentions, I had been doing many things the wrong way as her husband. Coach Jack opened my mind to many new ideas that have been very thought provoking and proved to be extremely useful. That said, you really have to try to carry an open mind and be able to take constructive criticism. I never knew marriage coaching could be this effective in changing the course of my marriage. In just one month of coaching, my wife went from hopelessly shutting me out to embracing me and feeling excited for our future. I will continue to practice what I've learned and be forever grateful to Coach for passing on his wisdom.”
- Joseph from S.F.
“Dr Ito provided me with the tools I needed to look at my relationship (and myself) the way I once did. Over time, some of us tend to lose sight of things, even when these things are the most valued in our lives. This happened to me and I thank Dr Ito for challenging me and pointing me in the right direction for growth and self-improvement. With self-improvement comes positive changes in all aspects of our lives. Thanks, Coach!”
- RG from Texas
Becoming the man I once was
“For the first few years of our marriage, it was close to perfect. But, no one taught us how to handle the kids, the job stress, the money issues that slowly corroded our relationship. I avoided her anger; she had an affair. We separated. I realized I still love her. I took responsibility for pushing her away. I read books, I tried all sorts of therapy, I tried courses, but it all failed. She did not want to participate. That's when I called Jack. We worked for a few months, off-and-on, restoring the man I was before life's challenges impacted me, the man she fell in love with. Both me and her are still on our journeys, but I now feel we have a shot. Nothing is remotely as effective as Jack's method for restoring a relationship when your partner is reluctant. I was glad I purchased the full package, which provided an immediate relief between sessions: I emailed him incessantly, and he quickly replied. I still ping Jack from time to time, as an energy shot when I feel we are derailing, and I see him as my true confidant, guide and mentor.”
- Ronnie from L.A.
Uncanny Knowing of What's Needed
“Coach Jack was able to quickly discern what was going on in my particular situation regarding my marriage and action steps I needed to take immediately. Results were seen quickly and I have a greater understanding of what to do and where to get support moving forward. I honestly believe coach Jack may have saved my marriage. Thank you!”
The Right Help at the Right Time
“Hi, my name is Paul, I live in Ireland. I used Coach Jack to help me get back on the right road with my wife who I am separated from. This was done on a weekly basis and Jack contacted me promptly at the allocated time by Skype. The sessions started with advising me on the stages of rebuilding my relationships and the 'dos and don'ts'. I learnt about boundaries, not been needy and how to be more attractive. I had been saying and doing the wrong things for a few months when we separated first. The message I wanted to give my wife was the same but I had been using the wrong words or actions. I learnt how and when to say and do things. I'm more confident about sorting things with my wife, but have also learnt it's not the end of the world if it doesn't work out. But I have the tools to give it my best shot. Most things I learnt were the opposite to what I was doing, but when explained made perfect logical sense. I just want to say Thanks again to Jack for helping me get through this hard time and would Highly Recommend Jack and his services to anyone. I would also recommend his book Connecting Through Yes which I dipped into between sessions to help me out. 5 star and Professional.”
- Paul in Ireland
FINALLY right course of action
“I do wish I'd come across you months ago. You seem to truly "get it." No one else I've looked into or read has come anywhere close to understanding my situation as well as you do. I FINALLY feel I know the proper course of action to take, and will follow your recommendations fully. You've lifted a huge anxiety weight off me now that I'm no longer guessing at whether or not I'm taking the right actions. Clearly, I was not doing so before.”
“I took coaching from Jack and one of his advice was to not be a doormat with my situation. I ended up standing up for myself and told my husband i was fed up with his ways and things definetly turned around to where I got control of my marriage and my husband was the one who was begging at my feet. I thank Jack for the wonderful advice he provided.”
Proud of you Coach Jack
“I feel the need to say this to you. I am really proud of you. For being who you are, and of what you are offering to the world. To follow your passion and to share that in order to help others is very admirable! I wish you the very best, and may the universe shower you with all the kindness it can offer!"”
- Ed W.
Learned how to love my husband right
“I wasn't ready to love my husband, but you taught me how to do that in a strong way. If I said it was easy I'd be lying, but I don't know how I could've done it without you. Thank you, Jack.”
- Jennifer from L.A.
“I'm sure God led me to you. You have helped me soooo much! I will always be grateful for restoring my marriage”
- Thomas from Denver
Changed my thinking
“I was so focused on what my husband was doing I couldn't think of anything else. Coach Jack helped me to focus on points of connection and how to build on them. It gave something different to think about and it helped get my husband back”
- Adrienne from UK
“I was a little hesitant at first, but coach Jack really helped.”