The Real Reasons Behind Your Husband’s Cheating
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The Real Reasons Behind Your Husband’s Cheating

The reasons why men cheat and have affairs are not complex. Understanding them is key to preventing and ending cheating. When it comes to why men cheat and have affairs, women tend to have two problems. First, they tend to overthink the situation and come up with overly complicated answers. Secondly, they tend to believe…

Why Being Faithful in Marriage Is Important
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Why Being Faithful in Marriage Is Important

We are now living in a time when sex and emotionally intimate relationships with someone other than your spouse is being actively promoted and touted as a good thing. Nothing could be further from the truth. Almost on a daily basis, I see relationships which have been destroyed by a lack of fidelity between marriage…

How To Improve Your Marriage When You Don’t Trust Your Husband
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How To Improve Your Marriage When You Don’t Trust Your Husband

He tells me I should trust him. I want to, but I can’t. What do I do now? Trust is something that helps our relationships grow by allowing to us to become more and more emotionally and practically committed. There should be little trust at the beginning so we don’t commit too soon. 

A Jealousy Self Test and How to Overcome Jealousy
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A Jealousy Self Test and How to Overcome Jealousy

Jealousy makes people feel mistrusted and controlled. It contributes to relationship dissatisfaction, broken relationships, cheating, affairs, and divorce. Jealousy is a combination of the feelings of fear of losing a loved one and anger at the love one’s attraction, attention, or affection toward someone else. People who feel jealous monitor their loved one’s behavior to…

How to Have Lasting Relationships and Loving Marriages
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How to Have Lasting Relationships and Loving Marriages

Combining healthy expectations with relationship building behaviors will give you a satisfying relationship. I have worked with thousands of men, women, and couples over the last 30 years. Today, I want to share with you some core skills for relationship success. You can then start to put these skills to use right away. To benefit, you…

How to Confront Your Husband’s Affair and Reconcile
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How to Confront Your Husband’s Affair and Reconcile

How and when to confront your spouse’s affair is part of the solution. The other is knowing how to rebuild following the confrontation. Robin had been feeling for a long time like she was unimportant to her husband. He didn’t seem to be interested in talking with her anymore. He would if he needed to,…

Sexual Affair or Emotional Affair? Questions and Answers
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Sexual Affair or Emotional Affair? Questions and Answers

Do you know the difference between a sexual affair and an emotional affair? Is one more ok than the other? Can someone have a “mental affair,” even if he or she isn’t seeing anyone? Have you ever had a feeling your partner was cheating on you? You may have seen or heard something that made you suspect…

How to Make Sure Marriage Differences Don’t Become Irreconcilable
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How to Make Sure Marriage Differences Don’t Become Irreconcilable

Can you get cooperation and fix a marriage when you are very different from each other?  Absolutely! The main reason couples have difficulty solving their relationship problems is because they don’t work to find common ground. They want to fix the biggest differences so badly that they tackle those head on. The big differences reflect differences…

When to Let a Spouse who Cheated Move Back In
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When to Let a Spouse who Cheated Move Back In

If you take your cheating husband or wife back too soon, that is needy and encourages continued affairs. So, when should you take your cheating spouse back? Many people, in their desire to reconcile, will take a cheating spouse back too quickly.  The problem with this is that their spouses are still overcoming their attraction…

How to Confront a Cheating Spouse and Rebuild
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How to Confront a Cheating Spouse and Rebuild

You will have to confront your cheating spouse with your knowledge of his or her affair if you hope to save your relationship. But, what is the best way to do that? Before confronting your cheating spouse, you need to: 1) know what you want to achieve, 2) anticipate different responses you may get, and…