How to Prevent Divorce and Reconnect while Separated
While many people view separation as a relationship being over, it’s actually an opportunity to strengthen your marriage.
While many people view separation as a relationship being over, it’s actually an opportunity to strengthen your marriage.
Today, I want to help you learn the importance of giving space in relationships and how to determine the right amount of space to promote reconciling. I will also give you advice for using space to build a stronger, more stable relationship. I haven’t been to my dentist in some time. He’s not a bad…
Do you want to persuade your spouse to stay together for practical reasons (kids, finances, home, business) while your spouse wants to separate because your relationship is not emotionally close? This kind of problem typically occurs when: 1) a relationship started out as romantic, 2) changed to a business partner relationship, and 3) one of…
Some spouses are reluctant to be more emotionally intimate and seem to be bothered when you try. Don’t despair! There are some helpful things you can do to restore emotional intimacy–even with a difficult spouse. Before getting married, most couples enjoy spending a lot of time together doing things just because they like to be…
Feeling used or taken advantage of can seriously erode your love for your spouse and lead to a worse marriage. I want to give you three steps to fix this and improve your marriage. Resentment is a feeling we have when we do things for someone, expecting something in return that we don’t get. Or…
Even if your husband doesn’t like you, you can still reconcile. You do that with several specific steps you take in the right order. Many relationships can be reconciled regardless of the amount of emotional distance. It does not require you to be submissive. Mutual submission is great, one-way submission not so much as it…
It is possible to get your husband to come back to you. Like most things, it will require doing the right steps in the right order. Lesson 1: Why people (including your husband) do what they do I think a lot of women stress themselves out trying to figure out why their husband is leaving….
Having good separation boundaries will prevent your spouse from having his (or her) cake and eating it, too. That, along with connecting with your spouse and being attractive, will promote reconciling. Although many people do reconcile after separation, many people don’t. What makes the difference between these two groups? It is the behavior of the partner who…
Your spouse is not stopping you from improving your marriage Have you tried to improve your marriage by talking with your spouse about problems? Most people find doing that either only creates temporary improvement or no improvement at all. As a relationship coach, I want to help people create changes that not only result in…
Okay, you messed up in the past, but now you are doing all that she ever wanted plus more. Still, your wife won’t come back. What’s going on? Men get scared when their wives want to separate or divorce. Because of that, they try to quickly change their wife’s decision. What they typically do is…