Resent Your Spouse? How to End Resentment and Improve Your Marriage
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Resent Your Spouse? How to End Resentment and Improve Your Marriage

Feeling used or taken advantage of can seriously erode your love for your spouse and lead to a worse marriage. I want to give you three steps to fix this and improve your marriage. Resentment is a feeling we have when we do things for someone, expecting something in return that we don’t get. Or…

How to Reconcile if Your Husband Doesn’t Like You
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How to Reconcile if Your Husband Doesn’t Like You

Even if your husband doesn’t like you, you can still reconcile. You do that with several specific steps you take in the right order. Many relationships can be reconciled regardless of the amount of emotional distance. It does not require you to be submissive. Mutual submission is great, one-way submission not so much as it…

How to Reconcile when Your Husband is Leaving You
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How to Reconcile when Your Husband is Leaving You

It is possible to get your husband to come back to you. Like most things, it will require doing the right steps in the right order. Lesson 1: Why people (including your husband) do what they do I think a lot of women stress themselves out trying to figure out why their husband is leaving….

7 Separation Boundaries that Promote Reconciliation after Separation
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7 Separation Boundaries that Promote Reconciliation after Separation

Having good separation boundaries will prevent your spouse from having his (or her) cake and eating it, too. That, along with connecting with your spouse and being attractive, will promote reconciling. Although many people do reconcile after separation, many people don’t. What makes the difference between these two groups? It is the behavior of the partner who…

How to Improve Your Marriage without Your Spouse’s Help
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How to Improve Your Marriage without Your Spouse’s Help

Your spouse is not stopping you from improving your marriage Have you tried to improve your marriage by talking with your spouse about problems? Most people find doing that either only creates temporary improvement or no improvement at all. As a relationship coach, I want to help people create changes that not only result in…

I Changed Like She Wanted, So Why Won’t My Wife Come Back to Me?
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I Changed Like She Wanted, So Why Won’t My Wife Come Back to Me?

Okay, you messed up in the past, but now you are doing all that she ever wanted plus more. Still, your wife won’t come back. What’s going on? Men get scared when their wives want to separate or divorce. Because of that, they try to quickly change their wife’s decision. What they typically do is…

4 Things NOT Do When You Have an Alcoholic Spouse (Avoid These Relationship Mistakes)
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4 Things NOT Do When You Have an Alcoholic Spouse (Avoid These Relationship Mistakes)

If you have an alcoholic spouse, you may be making one of these four mistakes. Changing even that one thing can give your relationship a real boost.  Everyone wants to have a good marriage or relationship. People who have an alcoholic spouse want to have a good relationship. Even alcoholic spouses, want to have good relationships. No…

How to Talk about Sex for a More Satisfying Marriage
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How to Talk about Sex for a More Satisfying Marriage

Sexual dissatisfaction can cause relationship problems which can cause more sexual dissatisfaction. Learn how to improve sexual satisfaction for both of you, using better communication. People who are not sexually satisfied in their marriage begin to lose sexual desire for their partners.  After that, the frequency of sex drops off or stops altogether. When sex…

How to Stop Arguing about Money and Improve Your Relationship
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How to Stop Arguing about Money and Improve Your Relationship

Financial problems in marriage have both a financial aspect and a relationship aspect. Learn to deal with both and you can talk about anything. The answer to financial problems is often simple, but talking to your spouse about it may be difficult. First, let’s consider the simple answer to financial problems–increase income and decrease expenses until…

How to Keep Good Communication in a Long Distance Relationship
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How to Keep Good Communication in a Long Distance Relationship

Communication problems can lead to relationship issues in long distance relationships. Learn to keep your relationship alive and growing while you are apart. I first met my wife online while living 10,000 miles apart. She lived in Japan and was learning English. I lived in the USA and was learning Japanese. It would be three…