While talking certainly has it’s place, it often will not get your spouse to be warmer or closer. If you are one of the many who believe that the only way to fix problems is by talking, you will be stuck when it doesn’t work. Fortunately, there are many more things that we can do…
(In Part 1, I talked about why trying directly trying to fix your spouse backfires. Now let’s focus on what to change in yourself to make your spouse naturally respond better).
Most people either avoid confrontation or fight destructively—but neither saves the marriage. In part one, I taught how to confront without conflict. In part two, you will learn all the steps to an effective confrontation to end problem behavior and rebuild your marriage.
Need to confront, but don’t want to fight? There is no need to. Done correctly, a good confrontation does not create conflict and effectively creates change. Learn how today and get a big step toward a closer marriage.
Getting nowhere talking about problems with your spouse? Feeling stuck and hopeless? Try this argument free alternative to make your marriage better.
Most couples think conflict is just part of marriage. But the truth is, the more conflict you have, the weaker your marriage becomes. What if instead of arguments, blame, or withdrawal, you could turn differences into the very moments that deepen connection and rebuild love?
Fighting about finances is mainly about the emotional issues. Let me help you today to figure out if emotional issues need to be addressed first in your marriage, or financial ones. The right steps, in the right order, will lead to marital and financial success.
Many men misunderstand boundaries and how to use them effectively to improve their marriage. Correctly used, boundaries will prevent resentment, build respect, and keep your relationship strong. Today, I want to give you guidance to understand and use boundaries effectively with your wife.
When a spouse wants separation or divorce, many people try to fix problems directly. This usually just results in more distance. Here’s a way that is easier and works better.
Listening well will help your husband or wife to enjoy talking with you more. Going beyond understanding and creating a feeling of similarity will boost your relationship.
