Updated May 26, 2026 Being angry with your spouse while not wanting to end your marriage can lead to inaction or overreaction. You know you will have to confront, but how can you do that in a way that best promotes reconciling? By the end of this post, you will know how.
Updated May 12, 2026 It might seem justified to date others if your spouse has cheated on you. And, you might think it is a good way to make your spouse reconcile with you. But, both ideas are wrong and will hurt your chances of keeping your marriage together. There is a better way.
Updated April 27, 2026 Separation feels like an emotional endurance test. Add to that the very real risk of divorce and you will spend all of your time overthinking. What you really need is a plan with a step-by-step approach. Then you can focus on what matters most.
Every day your spouse’s affair continues is one day it takes away from your marriage. You haven’t left because you still have hope, but how long can you hold out? And should you? Four key factors will help you know how long the affair will last, and what is required to end it.
Updated April 7, 2026 Going no contact can be unbearable for you, while your spouse gets used to being without you. Discover why the no contact rule may NOT make your spouse miss you and what actually works to promote reconciling.
After 30 years of helping people save their marriages, one thing is clear: most people go about it the wrong way. They panic, push, plead, explain, and talk the marriage to death. Then they wonder why nothing is getting better. This does not have to be you.
Despite your best efforts to reconnect with your wife, she just can’t bring herself to trust you again and is frequently angry. Do you need to give up? No, but you do need to help her let go of the anger before you get too frustrated and give up.
It feels like rejection. It’s a wall between the two of you. There’s more than one possibility for what is going on. Most importantly, you need to make sure that you are not part of the problem. We never want distance, but we can accidentally create it. Let’s find out so you can fix it…
Updated March 10, 2026 When your marriage is in trouble, your choice of counselor or coach and whether or not to work as a couple makes a real difference. Match needs with services for greater success.
Avoiding, fighting, distancing–you know the pattern. This cycle can only happen so many times before the loving aspect of your marriage disappears altogether. Breaking that cycle while still getting your needs met will set you on a good path. With a few skills, you can stop fight damage without needing to give up on what’s…
