Is Your Neediness Driving Your Husband to an Affair?
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Is Your Neediness Driving Your Husband to an Affair?

Neediness in marriage contributes to MOST of men’s affairs. The things you are doing to help may actually be pushing him away. Neediness is damaging to relationships at all stages and is a major contributor to failed relationships, whether married or not. A little work on your part can make a BIG difference for the…

7 Steps to Restore Your Marriage and Feel Like a Couple Again
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7 Steps to Restore Your Marriage and Feel Like a Couple Again

Marriage restoration means acting less “married” and getting back to what made you and your spouse want to be together in the first place. The difference between a good runner and a great runner is often just a few seconds. The difference between a lifeless, routine marriage and a satisfying relationship also is often very…

How to Date Your Spouse without Your Spouse Complaining
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How to Date Your Spouse without Your Spouse Complaining

Is dating your spouse frustrating and disappointing because of your he or she is never satisfied? You can end your spouse’s complaining and improve your dates at the same time. Where people go wrong: trying to plan bigger, more elaborate dates. Just as people in love can enjoy talking about anything, they can also enjoy…

Wife always Complains? What it Means. What You Can Do
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Wife always Complains? What it Means. What You Can Do

If your wife always complains, don’t make the mistake of just ignoring her. Complaints are a warning sign. If you don’t take care of them, you may lose your wife altogether. When your wife first started complaining, you may have tried to do things to make her happy. As the complaining continued, you probably felt…

How to End Your Spouse’s Affair WITHOUT Marriage Counseling

How to End Your Spouse’s Affair WITHOUT Marriage Counseling

Marriage counseling is NOT a good way to get your spouse to give up an affair. Only coaching and marriage retreats provide the skills for rebuilding marriages. Which you choose depends on your situation. If a couple both want to improve their relationship and do not know how to go about it, I recommend them…

Can I Date Others if We are Separated Due to Spouse’s Affair?
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Can I Date Others if We are Separated Due to Spouse’s Affair?

Although it may seem fair to you if you date others, this behavior can only hurt your chances of permanently reconciling. Dating others while wanting your spouse to end an affair will also quickly turn you into a hypocrite. Dating others while being married is cheating. You are still married, even while separated. You have…

How You Can End Your Spouse’s Affair while Maintaining Emotional Connection
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How You Can End Your Spouse’s Affair while Maintaining Emotional Connection

Balance good boundaries and loving communication to end your spouse’s affair and be close again You can build your relationship, even while your spouse is having an affair. But, you will need to use good boundaries. Otherwise, your spouse will enjoy you and the affair partner. The more damaged your marriage has become, the more…

5 Key Principles for Using Boundaries to Improve Your Marriage
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5 Key Principles for Using Boundaries to Improve Your Marriage

Although the effective use of boundaries can mean the difference between a good relationship and a bad one. Many people are confused about what boundaries are and how to use them. Have you tried to get your spouse to stop doing something by using boundaries? If it hasn’t worked, it’s probably because you were not…

When to Let a Spouse who Cheated Move Back In
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When to Let a Spouse who Cheated Move Back In

If you take your cheating husband or wife back too soon, that is needy and encourages continued affairs. So, when should you take your cheating spouse back? Many people, in their desire to reconcile, will take a cheating spouse back too quickly.  The problem with this is that their spouses are still overcoming their attraction…