Updated on December 11, 2025 If your husband has become selfish or disrespectful, it can make you feel unloved and unvalued in your own home. In this article, you’ll learn the signs of disrespect, why men become this way, and the steps you can use to rebuild respect and connection.
When your husband or wife is wanting to separate or divorce, the last thing you want to be doing is something that pushes them even further away. Today, I will share the most common behaviors that create distance and rejection. Stopping just one of these can help you to greatly improve your marriage.
Your spouse isn’t giving you any more chances, but you want one. Repeated disappointment on your part has led your spouse to believe that you will never change. What you need is a way to avoid the rejection of your efforts, while becoming the person your spouse wants to keep instead of leave. This is…
The right amount of contact is critical for reconciling with your husband or wife. Opinions vary widely on how much that is. Today I will help you to determine just how much contact to use for your particular level of marriage problems. Getting it right, will help you to confidently work toward preventing divorce and…
You can motivate your spouse to do many things, including treating you better and working on your marriage. But, a direct, single step approach is likely to just get you resistance and make you feel stuck and hopeless. Let me help you with a more effective approach to get your marriage back to the way…
People don’t keep arguing about the same things because arguing works. It doesn’t. So why do they persist? And what can they do instead to break the argument cycle and improve their marriage? After this podcast you will know, and you can take your first steps toward a better marriage.
While talking certainly has it’s place, it often will not get your spouse to be warmer or closer. If you are one of the many who believe that the only way to fix problems is by talking, you will be stuck when it doesn’t work. Fortunately, there are many more things that we can do…
Many people ask, “How do I know if my spouse really wants a divorce?” If this is you, you’re probably wondering if it’s real this time—or just anger talking. How you respond may make the difference between staying married and actually divorcing.
(In Part 1, I talked about why trying directly trying to fix your spouse backfires. Now let’s focus on what to change in yourself to make your spouse naturally respond better).
Trying to end your spouse’s bad behavior in one step usually results in more conflict and only temporary change. There is a better way that not only ends the bad behavior–it strengthens your marriage.
