A Better, More Enjoyable Way to Build Your Marriage
Relationship building requires some skills, but should not feel unenjoyable. Here are five steps that will help you and your spouse enjoy the marriage-building process.
Relationship building requires some skills, but should not feel unenjoyable. Here are five steps that will help you and your spouse enjoy the marriage-building process.
The right amount of contact is critical for reconciling with your husband or wife. Opinions vary widely on how much that is. Today I will help you to determine just how much contact to use for your particular level of marriage problems. Getting it right, will help you to confidently work toward preventing divorce and…
If you want to reconcile and your spouse stopped wearing his or her wedding ring, should you continue to wear yours? The answer depends on your approach and your spouse’s resolve.
Doing the right steps, in the right order, can make all the difference for saving for your marriage rather than ending it. When people are having a marital crisis, they often try to directly change their spouse’s thinking, feelings, or behavior. While that may be necessary, this single step approach will typically be met by…
Marital separation (living in different homes), can be a good opportunity for rebuilding your relationship. It can also result in ending your relationship if not done in a good way. When you are separated, it’s easy to be overly focused on ending the separation. This is natural because you miss your spouse and just want…
Many people consider their marriage to be over and give up on it even though it can still be saved. For every person who saves their marriage working with me, there are many others who gave up on their marriage in the very same situation. Sometimes it is because they want to, but sometimes it…
While many people fear living apart will end their marriage, physical separation has benefits for reconciling that living together as-if separated doesn’t. When people behave as if they are separated while living together, they are actually still sharing the same space. The separation is actually an emotional separation. This is accomplished by avoidance and intentional…
Many men think that confronting their wives with an affair will automatically lead to reconciling. For most marriages this is not the case. There is only one scenario in which you can use a single step solution to end your wife’s affair and reconcile. That is when your relationship is already very good. Then you…
The vast majority of people give up on their marriages too soon. Affairs, not being in love, or your spouse saying he or she is done DO NOT prevent reconciling. I often receive emails from people asking if it is too late to save their marriage. They have done everything that they know how to…
Okay, you messed up in the past, but now you are doing all that she ever wanted plus more. Still, your wife won’t come back. What’s going on? Men get scared when their wives want to separate or divorce. Because of that, they try to quickly change their wife’s decision. What they typically do is…