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People can get stuck in their feelings and have a hard time getting over them. You can help your wife to get over hers, and work toward reconciling. When your wife says she hates you, can’t trust you, or is behaving that way, it is an honest reflection of her feelings.You need to take her…
A common question I hear from clients in the process of reconciling is “should I keep wearing my ring, even though my husband/wife took off his/hers?” Considerations for reconciling When trying to reconcile, should we take off our wedding ring to match our spouse? Or should we leave it on to show our continued commitment?…
How long affairs last depends on several factors. Some of these are under your control. Learn how to do what you can to shorten your spouse’s affair. For more than two decades, I have been helping people to end their spouse’s affairs and to rebuild their relationships. What is important to realize is that there…
If you are having a marriage crisis, you need to know the steps for how to save your marriage. Missing even one step can make a big difference. When you are having a marital crisis, the obvious solution is to get your spouse to change. But, the harder you try to change your spouse, the…
Marital separation (living in different homes), can be a good opportunity for rebuilding your relationship. It can also result in ending your relationship if not done in a good way. When you are separated, you are likely to be overly focused on ending the separation. This is natural because you miss your spouse and just…
Real separation is very different from being separated while living together. Behaving as if you are separated while living together does damage that makes reconciling much less likely The dynamics of being separated (living in different homes) creates greater opportunities for connection, respect building, and reconciliation. Considering yourself to be separated while living together creates…
By far, the the bigger mistake people mistake is thinking that their marriage is over when it is not. This is a false conclusion which comes from not knowing what to try next For every person who works with me to save their marriage, there are many others who have given up in the very…
What are the signs your wife is cheating? What can you do to end her affair and reconcile? And, how can you forgive her once you do? Figuring out if your wife is having an affair is not enough. You can’t simply confront her and fix things in one step. Many men imagine a response like,…
She said it, but is she really not in love with you anymore? Are her feelings just blocked? What can you do in this situation to move toward reconciling? Women can and do fall out of love. Love is not some fixed quality like having an arm or a head. It can come and go….
There are only 2 indicators that it is too late to save your marriage. The vast majority of people give up on their marriages too soon. Lack of progress calls for different methods–it doesn’t mean it is too late to save your marriage I often receive emails from people asking if it is too late…