I Changed Like She Wanted, So Why Won’t My Wife Come Back to Me?
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I Changed Like She Wanted, So Why Won’t My Wife Come Back to Me?

Okay, you messed up in the past, but now you are doing all that she ever wanted plus more. Still, your wife won’t come back. What’s going on? Men get scared when their wives want to separate or divorce. Because of that, they try to quickly change their wife’s decision. What they typically do is…

How to Reconcile with a Wife Who is Always Angry or Can’t Trust You
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How to Reconcile with a Wife Who is Always Angry or Can’t Trust You

People can get stuck in their feelings and have a hard time getting over them. You can help your wife to get over hers, and work toward reconciling. When your wife says she hates you, can’t trust you, or is behaving that way, it is an honest reflection of her feelings.You need to take her…

My Spouse Took Off Wedding Ring. Should I Take Off Mine if I Want to Reconcile?
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My Spouse Took Off Wedding Ring. Should I Take Off Mine if I Want to Reconcile?

A common question I hear from clients in the process of reconciling is “should I keep wearing my ring, even though my husband/wife took off his/hers?” Considerations for reconciling When trying to reconcile, should we take off our wedding ring to match our spouse? Or should we leave it on to show our continued commitment?…

How Long Do Affairs Last? How to Make Your Spouse’s Affair End Sooner
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How Long Do Affairs Last? How to Make Your Spouse’s Affair End Sooner

How long affairs last depends on several factors. Some of these are under your control. Learn how to do what you can to shorten your spouse’s affair. For more than two decades, I have been helping people to end their spouse’s affairs and to rebuild their relationships. What is important to realize is that there…

6 Steps to Go From Marriage Crisis to Loving Marriage
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6 Steps to Go From Marriage Crisis to Loving Marriage

If you are having a marriage crisis, you need to know the steps for how to save your marriage. Missing even one step can make a big difference. When you are having a marital crisis, the obvious solution is to get your spouse to change. But, the harder you try to change your spouse, the…

How to Rebuild while Separated: Marital Separation Do’s and Don’ts
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How to Rebuild while Separated: Marital Separation Do’s and Don’ts

Marital separation (living in different homes), can be a good opportunity for rebuilding your relationship. It can also result in ending your relationship if not done in a good way. When you are separated, you are likely to be overly focused on ending the separation. This is natural because you miss your spouse and just…

Why Being Separated while Living Together is a Poor Choice for Reconciling
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Why Being Separated while Living Together is a Poor Choice for Reconciling

Real separation is very different from being separated while living together. Behaving as if you are separated while living together does damage that makes reconciling much less likely The dynamics of being separated (living in different homes) creates greater opportunities for connection, respect building, and reconciliation. Considering yourself to be separated while living together creates…

Do You Know the Signs Your Marriage Is Over–And When it Is Not?
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Do You Know the Signs Your Marriage Is Over–And When it Is Not?

By far, the the bigger mistake people mistake is thinking that their marriage is over when it is not. This is a false conclusion which comes from not knowing what to try next For every person who works with me to save their marriage, there are many others who have given up in the very…

Is My Wife Cheating on Me? Finding Out, Reconciling, Forgiving
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Is My Wife Cheating on Me? Finding Out, Reconciling, Forgiving

What are the signs your wife is cheating? What can you do to end her affair and reconcile? And, how can you forgive her once you do? Figuring out if your wife is having an affair is not enough. You can’t simply confront her and fix things in one step. Many men imagine a response like,…