Physical Separation vs In Home Separation: Which is Better for Reconciling?
|

Physical Separation vs In Home Separation: Which is Better for Reconciling?

While many people fear living apart will end their marriage, physical separation has benefits for reconciling that living together as-if separated doesn’t. When people behave as if they are separated while living together, they are actually still sharing the same space. The separation is actually an emotional separation. This is accomplished by avoidance and intentional…

How To Reconcile With A Cheating Wife And Restore Love
| |

How To Reconcile With A Cheating Wife And Restore Love

Many men think that confronting their wives with an affair will automatically lead to reconciling. For most marriages this is not the case. There is only one scenario in which you can use a single step solution to end your wife’s affair and reconcile. That is when your relationship is already very good. Then you…

How to Know If It’s Too Late to Save Your Marriage
|

How to Know If It’s Too Late to Save Your Marriage

The vast majority of people give up on their marriages too soon. Affairs, not being in love, or your spouse saying he or she is done DO NOT prevent reconciling. I often receive emails from people asking if it is too late to save their marriage. They have done everything that they know how to…

I Changed Like She Wanted, So Why Won’t My Wife Come Back to Me?
| |

I Changed Like She Wanted, So Why Won’t My Wife Come Back to Me?

Okay, you messed up in the past, but now you are doing all that she ever wanted plus more. Still, your wife won’t come back. What’s going on? Men get scared when their wives want to separate or divorce. Because of that, they try to quickly change their wife’s decision. What they typically do is…

How to Reconcile with a Wife Who is Always Angry or Can’t Trust You
| |

How to Reconcile with a Wife Who is Always Angry or Can’t Trust You

People can get stuck in their feelings and have a hard time getting over them. You can help your wife to get over hers, and work toward reconciling. When your wife says she hates you, can’t trust you, or is behaving that way, it is an honest reflection of her feelings.You need to take her…

My Spouse Took Off Wedding Ring. Should I Take Off Mine if I Want to Reconcile?
|

My Spouse Took Off Wedding Ring. Should I Take Off Mine if I Want to Reconcile?

A common question I hear from clients in the process of reconciling is “should I keep wearing my ring, even though my husband/wife took off his/hers?” Considerations for reconciling When trying to reconcile, should we take off our wedding ring to match our spouse? Or should we leave it on to show our continued commitment?…

How Long Do Affairs Last? How to Make Your Spouse’s Affair End Sooner
|

How Long Do Affairs Last? How to Make Your Spouse’s Affair End Sooner

How long affairs last depends on several factors. Some of these are under your control. Learn how to do what you can to shorten your spouse’s affair. For more than two decades, I have been helping people to end their spouse’s affairs and to rebuild their relationships. What is important to realize is that there…

6 Steps to Go From Marriage Crisis to Loving Marriage
|

6 Steps to Go From Marriage Crisis to Loving Marriage

If you are having a marriage crisis, you need to know the steps for how to save your marriage. Missing even one step can make a big difference. When you are having a marital crisis, the obvious solution is to get your spouse to change. But, the harder you try to change your spouse, the…

How to Rebuild while Separated: Marital Separation Do’s and Don’ts
|

How to Rebuild while Separated: Marital Separation Do’s and Don’ts

Marital separation (living in different homes), can be a good opportunity for rebuilding your relationship. It can also result in ending your relationship if not done in a good way. When you are separated, you are likely to be overly focused on ending the separation. This is natural because you miss your spouse and just…